Urrggg!!!!
@jahernandezrivas (11288)
United States
August 26, 2011 11:51am CST
This happens to me all the time and it really annoys me!! I will be almost asleep and that is when my husband decides he wants to talk to me!! That or he waits until I am almost asleep and then there it goes!! The Question!! Will you go to the kitchen and get me a coffee and something to eat? Dang!! I cooked like hours ago!! And when he tries to talk to me he says o your not listening well Duh!!! I am trying to sleep!Does this happen to you? 
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@sswallace21 (1824)
• United States
27 Aug 11
I would tell him to go get his self. I don't believe his legs are broken. I don't understand why men believe we need to wait on them hand and foot. Believe you me my husband knows better. When we are having a meal, I ask him before I sit down is there anything else I can get. If the answer is no, I will sit down. If he needs anything after that he can just get his self. Best Wishes!
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@jahernandezrivas (11288)
• United States
28 Aug 11
L.O.L. I have asked him that before are your'e legs broke? he he he L.O.L. 
@gcyono (38)
• Indonesia
27 Aug 11
I think this case will not annoying you, if you know how to get sleep soon. Yo say that you have a hard to sleep after wake up again. that is the problem. So? Search information how to be easy to sleep. Most people say, it is depend on your mood. So, I believe that you will be a good sleeper if you can control your mood (after wake up again ) Wish you luck
@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
3 Dec 11
Actually this would annoy me, and if I did this to my husband since I am usually always the last one to sleep, it would not fly over as well. I would think that if he is hungry he should be able to get up and make himself a sandwich or something himself instead of trying to wake you up knowing that you are sleeping. I would think sleep would be of importance and somehow he should be able to fend for himself some as well.
@jahernandezrivas (11288)
• United States
3 Dec 11
I think the same way if I want something I get it myself even if I am sick or tired. It is so annoying! I can't stand it!
@koperty3 (1876)
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27 Aug 11
Hm. No it never happened to me. When I'm almost asleep and my partner wants something from the kitchen he goes there and do it by himself. Also when he want to talk to me about something serious we do it in the morning or during the supper. Not when we resting in bed or half in sleep.
@ronadelle (1547)
• Philippines
26 Aug 11
Oh that's very inconsiderate for your husband to do when you are already managing your way to sleep. It never happened to me though for I really told my husband that if he ever wants to eat other than our major meals, I requested that he prepares something for himself. This works for us. So, what did you do? Did you follow your husband? I'm suggesting that you talk to him.
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@jahernandezrivas (11288)
• United States
26 Aug 11
I always do it for him but it does annoy me I do it because he works hard all day and I love him. But I just cook every day and we he gets home he is always too tired to eat right away so I just put it up for him and he eats later, but I really wish he would not wait until I am just about asleep and I have told him but I think he forgets.
@hafiz008 (450)
• India
26 Aug 11
I am not married and just a college student. I can understand your feelings but you must have to obey your husband. If it is routine you must advice your husband that it feels me badly.This helps to build a strong relationship between you and your husband.I want say there are lots of husbands who beat and torture their wives without any reason. I think you don't have such problem, so you just understood that you are lucky wife.
@jahernandezrivas (11288)
• United States
26 Aug 11
That is so true I used to have a finacee that did awful things to me he passed away, but I don't miss any of that violence at alL!! I have a great husband now and I don't mind doing things for him I just wish he would ask me at different times for things like that.
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@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
26 Aug 11
Oh wow I can see how that is annoying and irritating. I would be like so zoned out and not in the talking and or get up mode. Thankfully I don't have that here, lol.. usually if my boyfriend does want to talk at night he usually does it right away as I climb into bed. But he is a sound sleeper that when that head hits the pillow it does not take but a few second to knock out for him. lol
@jahernandezrivas (11288)
• United States
26 Aug 11
Yea it is very annoying for me because it is very difficult for me to get back to sleep, not for him he is like your boyfriend he could just fall asleep in seconds it takes me 2- 3 hours to get to sleep and if I am woken up it will take me that long to get back to sleep again!
