Will he really marry me?

@chicko (86)
India
August 27, 2011 11:30am CST
There was this handsome hunk in my old office, one day he said in front of everyone that he has decided to get married, so when everyone asked him who is he going to marry, he said my name......I was so zapped! and i was like, u didn't even ask if i want to marry you! And he was like whats there to ask, i will pick u up and take u away and marry u! all that was like a joke! (we live in india btw) And I started thinking, how and why did that thought come in his mind? We have nothing in common, not one thing...in fact, we both 'cannot' marry, being from different castes and religions and lifestyles and our personalities are so different too....me being an introvert and he is very outgoing and social, etc.... Today after 2 years, when we were chatting, he brought the subject up again! and i was like u remember that joke? and he said yes! Now i'm wondering whether he really thought of marrying me or he is jus playing the fool with me? If he wanted to really marry me, he would have done so long back, fearing that i may get married to somebody else! And if he doesn't want to marry me, why bring the subject up? is he not afraid that i will call him a cheat if he doesn't marry me! What do u think of all this?
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6 responses
@koperty3 (1876)
27 Aug 11
That situation was quite strange. I think he was joking. You said that you have nothing in common with this man. In other hand he could be serious. Bu did you noticed anything like he watch you at work or try to be in your company all the time or is specially nice just anything? If yes so maybe you should try to talk to him more. I wish you all the best.
@chicko (86)
• India
27 Aug 11
no he never tried to do anything special or talk to me....
27 Aug 11
i think he really want to marry you. because he has the gut to say in front of everyone
@chicko (86)
• India
27 Aug 11
he could have also been joking in front of everyone right?
@bird123 (10643)
• United States
27 Aug 11
THere is a connection there but now he is being shy. He hides behind jokes where it's safe. Ask him if he is going to take you out to a nice restaurant tonight. I bet he says yes. Grow the relationship closer from there knowing he is a bit shy at really getting close to you. Help him along.
@Fireheart (683)
• India
28 Aug 11
You should have really told him not to joke on such things so not without thinking, so after that incident did he propose to you something like that, if a guy is in love he should really propose and know your decision not by his judgement, you should confirm what he said is only a joke or not, or else he might bring that joke again in front of other, guys like us sometimes jokes on things without even thinking only for fun. you must really straight forward ask him for his reason to be saying so.
• Malaysia
28 Aug 11
I congratulate u both....love is in the air
@Olleenz (3398)
• Indonesia
29 Aug 11
What a strange situation you got here. There possibility that he want to marry you but he also see Big Barrier between you two. In some country, castes and religions can describes as impenetrable barrier. If you don't like him or like him as friend, consider that all he said about marrying you as a joke. But if you like him more than just a friend, try to find what going on. Since he already said that he going to marry you but he doesn't make any necessary action to make it real, he must have some reason. It's up to you now ......