It isn't easy for me!

It would be amazing if you had a daughter! Your son is so gorgeous, and with your good looks your daughter would be a wee stunner! You could get her her own red shoes.. Maybe it isn’t meant to be though? So women cannot have children, at all. And the fact you have been blessed with a child at all is a miracle in this day and age, with how many people spend their lives yearning for children and going through all sorts of I.V.F and other fertility treatments to try and conceive! .. but have you been to the doctor and been tested? You and your husband both? .. I have heard before that having a child, can cause fertility problems for future children, so the fact you have had one child, doesn’t mean it has maybe stopped you from having more. I do believe our lives are mapped out for us though, and maybe it just isn’t the right time now? But I can understand how seeing a new baby can make you broody and wanting children. It often happens to me, and I am in a far worse position if I ever want to have kids, because obviously it couldn’t happen between my partner and I lol!

Dear friend Tony, I think that in a couple, there is no one thing more beautiful than the birth of a child.

Hi Toni! It is mainly in God's hands that when a couple blessed with a child. Many a times couples keep trying and they do not succeed. On the other hand sometimes, those who try least or forget to use any contraceptive any particular day or days get pregnant. Though, it is entirely your personal matter, yet I would say that if you are mentally prepared for the second baby, there is no harm in consulting a specialist Doctor. My best wishes are always with you.

Why not have a long vacation together where you two are relaxed and not tired. My teacher in college have told us that when one is tired while doing it, it would be really hard to make it. Because it's tired as well and can't get it there. (I don't know if I can mention it here). He also gave example like in poor family where both partner don't have a job, they can make babies easily because they are not tired and everytime they do it was always shoot. And in rich family or where the partner have a job they only blessed with few children. Because the one to reach the egg can't get there because it was tired as well.

There is a difference between wanting to be pregnant and wanting children. If you really want children, the former is not the pressing concern. There are thousands of children in this nation who need good homes; they are in the system, waiting for the day that either someone adopts them and provides them with a forever home... or they age out of the system without ever having been part of a loving family--left to face adulthood without that foundation.

Don't be so worried about getting pregnant again, it's good that you have a child already. How does a wife feel if she can't even bear a child? So, be happy and contented with what you have, sometimes we really do not understand why can't we have things that other people have. Being content is being happy.

Hello there toni, I just want to share something to you that may somehow help you to deal with what you are feeling right now. I've watch it and I know you can relate to it as it's very similar to what you are hoping for. Here's the link, I hope you like it http://weeklyfeast.com/live/index.php?option=com_videoflow&task=play&id=28&sl=latest&limitstart=5&Itemid=53&layout=listview

calm your friend seems to be afraid dsota seeing their new baby to these people. sometimes happens when you want something strong to get it immediately. I understand that you want to have another baby girl, and you sincerely want it. but hurry because perhaps not yet ripe. Have a nice day peaceful and everything will fall into place.

The couple you've mentioned is really blessed with kids and so are you. You do have a lovely son. Why it isn't easy for you?Don't feel that way. You'll soon be blessed. Godbless toni