I’m busy. You’re ugly. Have a nice day
By isloooboy
@isloooboy (1733)
United Arab Emirates
August 29, 2011 1:59am CST
Did you ever got this feeling form one your friend when you tried to talk to them or did you gave that kind of wired response to your friends?
I was looking today's topic and I found one in which author was complaining the others who just post once and never show up again. So I got this feeling which I describe as:
I’m busy. You’re ugly. Have a nice day.
What you say about it?
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11 responses
@GardenGerty (160663)
• United States
29 Aug 11
MyLot started in April or May of 2006, I believe. The first date I earned anything was on November 14 of 2006. I have lots of friends here now. Some I have even met in person. I still love being here.
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@GardenGerty (160663)
• United States
30 Aug 11
I do not think anyone who really pays attention would be hurt by this topic. It is thought provoking.
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@isloooboy (1733)
• United Arab Emirates
30 Aug 11
Well, I did not choose this topic to hurt others feelings but to express mine with truth and I am happy with the response of the mylotters to this topic which is awsome
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
29 Aug 11
hello isloo,
Your title made me laugh
Okay, you're busy ..but I am not ugly and I can always have someone to talk with me (hahahahaa) just kidding.
Well, I always take note any mylotter/s who only posted topic but never replies.
Or those ones who skipped comments and only response back to those response that they want to give comment back (ugh!)
I always respond to my topics and never skipped any response.
have a good day
jaiho®
@isloooboy (1733)
• United Arab Emirates
29 Aug 11
Well did you ever got expression from any opponent's behavior he want to say, "You are Ugly" if yes than what your response was?
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
29 Aug 11
Yes- someone did ever say that and my reaction is ...
" oh, thank you (with one eyebrow rising) I know you are in-secured of my ugliness"
@isloooboy (1733)
• United Arab Emirates
29 Aug 11
Don't make me in-secure honey (both eyebrow's are down)
......But....
I think you have witnessed so many times when you ask some very important question and the person who have to reply never came back, so don't you thought, what a waist of time? and what the hell is this?
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@GardenGerty (160663)
• United States
29 Aug 11
So what I hear you saying is that some people are giving you the "brush off" and that they do not want to be bothered with writing a decent response, or listening and talking with you. I do not really get that feeling when a person is a real friend. I then recognize that this might be a bad time for them. On the other hand, when I was new here, sometimes the things people said to me made me feel unwanted and unwelcome. I got over it, and have been here much longer than many other people.
@GardenGerty (160663)
• United States
30 Aug 11
Some will listen and like you, some will learn. Others will ignore all of us, and it is their loss in the long run.
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@isloooboy (1733)
• United Arab Emirates
30 Aug 11
Well I am a slow mover but quick learner and I have learn so many thing related to emotions at mylot, but don't you think we have to take them along us towards success, learning and earning? We can motivate them sharing this kind of thoughtful topics?
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@isloooboy (1733)
• United Arab Emirates
29 Aug 11
Than I have the right to say, have a nice day (Good Bye forever)
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@isloooboy (1733)
• United Arab Emirates
29 Aug 11
Well after reading so many topics similar kind of I thought the don't even bother what you are saying but just they show up once and than you wait and wait and wait for response regarding your question. So if they are busy and I am ugly than what?
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@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
29 Aug 11
Hi islooboy
I am ugly, you are busy and should have a better day
But that doesnt happen and I know I am beautiful and so are you. Those who dont respond, they are the people who lose out on so many things - making friends, gaining knowledge, and of course earning money
I dont want to add to their misery by making them feel they are ugly
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@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
30 Aug 11
Hmmm... I am ugly because the starter didn't find my response as interesting as his/her discussion. You are busy - maybe as you don't have that time to return back to the discussion that you started... and you should have a better day - where you would find some spare time to return back and comment on the responses you got
For you: You look so amazingly handsome in your avatar... for those who are concerned with looks, I doubt anyone would say you are ugly. And for people who look out for inner beauty - I am confident in sharing - you have a noble heart that is filled with love... that can never be ugly for me and many of your dear friends.
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@isloooboy (1733)
• United Arab Emirates
6 Sep 11
Wow, first of all thanks for your beautiful words because of them I am flying in the skies
Yep, I understand the reason why people not respond or not response on time and also understand the circumstances some times did not allow. Or maybe they do not feel enough interest which is also logical, but I believe on struggle and efforts which we must try to get the maximum response and that is what I wanted to get from this topic.
A true heart can understand the reality of a true heart, thanks for understanding me
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@isloooboy (1733)
• United Arab Emirates
30 Aug 11
Well
Even I am ugly, you are busy we can have a better day, how?. I think to make them think twice by reading this kind of postings, may it work. Can we?
@whengcat (1457)
• Philippines
29 Aug 11
got a nice one there
Well maybe that person who posted once and never showed up again is occupied with other things offline, some personal problems maybe? or on the other hand, maybe he/she's not really into mylotting yet. I hope this person take time to revisit and discover what good things mylotting will bring him/her
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@isloooboy (1733)
• United Arab Emirates
30 Aug 11
Fair enough, but than why post a reply on first stage why not stay away from that topic in the starting?
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@isloooboy (1733)
• United Arab Emirates
30 Aug 11
Well, what will you say if you see him posting replies to other topics same time and not responding to yours?
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@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
30 Aug 11
I really do not take it this way, I don't think. I can understand waht you mean with the No response back. It can mean lots of reasons for which they do not. Maybe they do not understand the site. Many think that all they have to do is post a topic and they earn for the responses. We all know this is not correct because we only earn for our efforts.
Some members do post topics thinking they are going to discuss and at times they really do not have any interest in the topic so they either post once and never return because they really do not have interest in the topic.
I really do not get offended because through my writing and my avatar, to date I believe I am a beautiful person. I would never disrespect anyone here, and or offline either, it is not in my nature to do so. So personally if I had friends who did this to me, I would have to find a reason outside of thinking that I did anything wrong. Though I am not perfect, and maybe I can ask the friend directly why treat me this way. If I still do not get a response then I guess "Have a nice day" is necessary.
@isloooboy (1733)
• United Arab Emirates
30 Aug 11
Well, first of all I am not rude neither I want to hurt anyone but I wished to be understand, as I made my title into three pieces. So every piece has its own meaning and understanding. Its now up to all of those who will read and respond, "How they elaborate the topic's title and how they respond to it
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
29 Aug 11
hi islooboy,
Well I am sexy, not really ugly and kinda busy
There are many members here who is like this
And it's kinda annoying sometimes
Well that is what they want it then be it.
Your title makes me laugh
happy mylotting
@isloooboy (1733)
• United Arab Emirates
30 Aug 11
I can't disagree with you and admit yeah you look sexy the way you smile and ca't be ugly with that pretty face.
Well I learnt that "Title is the most important part of our online life" so I am happy for my title because its catching people with nice pace
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@jricky1 (6800)
• China
30 Aug 11
Honestly,i'm not busy today.My job is translation for my boss,but there won't be too much work at usual.So sometimes i was wondering that is this job suitable for me and i'm should change another challenging one?It's really a tough question.I think there won't be such an easy job in the world.
@dabangladehi (660)
• Bangladesh
29 Aug 11
Very lovely and funny tittle buddy.I just can not stop my laughing after reading your post.
I try my best to comment back if I get response.Yap,I saw plenty people who do not give reply.May be they are busy or not interested.If not interested,then its my fault that I could not make it interested and I take the blame.
@isloooboy (1733)
• United Arab Emirates
29 Aug 11
So you take the blame, Did I find my culprit in the shape of you?
Look, whoever post a reply on y topic it means he or she was interested enough to read and reply but he must atleast check the topic for 3 more coming days to get involved in the topic and take full responsibility to finish what he had started.
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@dabangladehi (660)
• Bangladesh
29 Aug 11
I do agree with you.But I do not understand your question. Actually its not clear to me.
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@pepperpopper (376)
• Philippines
29 Aug 11
hi...probably, the reason why they don't look back to the topics they replied on is because they don't get notification that someone has commented on their response. Probably, in email it has notification but not in my lot site. So it's hard to look back. From my experience, i only know if someone has commented on my response if i check those discussion that i responded.
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@isloooboy (1733)
• United Arab Emirates
30 Aug 11
It is possibility, if they are not getting notifications than maybe they can slip through one conversation but as per you said you look twice after responding an topic to make sure go till the end, so why not they do the same?