can you hate a person and still love him/her at the same time?
By chiyochan
@chiyosan (30183)
Philippines
August 30, 2011 12:05am CST
I think we can... we love a person and its not like when they did something wrong to you... and you would hate them for it you would immediately not have love for them..
so i guess it is true that when you hate a person, you can still love them at the same time!!! right?
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9 responses
@sophiecheer (931)
• Philippines
3 Sep 11
Yes.
I had this fave song entitled, "When love and hate collide". It rings true during at one point in my life because, I had this huge crush on someone who is sooo impossible. I dont understand why I feel for him even though he is everything a good boyfriend is not. He is super naughty and haughty. But I really do feel attracted to him.
I get that it was my issue.. Well Im glad that phase is over now..
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
2 Sep 11
i love my wife.
and when we are in argument, i hate her.
i love all the works she is doing for me and our kids.
but i hate her when she is nagging.
@tess_quinain (1149)
• Philippines
30 Aug 11
it's true. No matter how you hate the person but if the love weigh more then your hatred will be swept away. Love is so powerful and conquers it all.
@sender621 (14893)
• United States
30 Aug 11
Both love and hate can walk such a fine line together. I think it is possible for us to say we hate someone when deep in our hearts the love may still linger for that person. the two emotions can be far from each other or too close to see.
@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
30 Aug 11
I do not believe in hating anybody. It could happen that I may not like certain traits in a person, however, that does not mean that I would stop loving that person. Loving someone is a positive trait and I believe in positivity.
@tessa9 (1085)
• Philippines
30 Aug 11
You can definitely love and hate a person at the same time. I hate my dad. I will now go into details but he did some things and still doing some things that makes me feel that way. Even though I hate him, I still hope him the best. I want him to be happy and content, he is still my father after all.