Ex-boyfriend using your nicknames to someone else.

WTF! If I were you I would have been angry! I would have been ashamed, embarrassed and angry. I mean, aren't nicknames supposed to be personal stuffs? Like, it's only between you and your partner (or ex-bf). Other couples may use the same nicknames but not exes to new partners. I mean, if it were common pet names like baby, honey, darling or sweetheart, well, that's okay. But to think that your pet names were so unique, I would have imagined it was only between the two of you. So if I were really in your shoes, I would have been mad. Well, I probably won't confront the guy with it but I will never speak with him again.

You should forget about him and try to move on. Obviously he has. He knew you would see those pictures. That was his gutless way of telling you what the deal is. You'll find someone better. A similar thing has happened to me except it wasn't a name. My ex happened to decide one day that "I don't wanna miss a thing" From Aerosmith was "Our song, baby". Not a favorite , but he was trying to be sweet so I kept shut about it. Fast forward a few years later. We aren't together anymore as a couple, but we are both out on a double date and all riding in the same car. Him and his date are up front. I'm in the back with mine. Suddenly that before mentioned song came on. My ex turned to his new woman and says "This is our song baby". I put a hand over my mouth to keep from laughing so loud. My date looked at me so I quietly explained to him and the both of us looked at each other and bust out laughing. My exs girlfriend looked really confused and I think my ex was pi44ed because that was not the reaction he was hoping for. Too bad for him.

I think it's important for you to steer clear with your ex now because you just end up being upset and thinking about the past when obviously he has moved on with his life and have replaced you with someone else. I think it's best to just delete him again and just live your life as if he didn't exist as well. I know it's painful to be in your position, after all, you were 'milk and choco' before. But well, that's life. Love fades and people would change. There's nothing you could do about it. Have a great MyLot experience today!

oh my! as far as my present state of mind will tell me, i do not experience that situation yet. but i don't know if my exes are also using our term of endearment with their present partner. but if it is, i think i should be happy because they will remember me somehow, especially right now that i am happy and contented with my married life,LOL! though, there are really people who isn't gifted with "delikadeza" and common sense. for now, you could do nothing about it already, if i were you, i won't show him that i am affected with him moving on and having someone in your place. i think. it's a wake up call for you to move on as well, and give chance to others to be your "milk and choco" as well! seriously, i wish you happiness! life brings a lot of promises, it's better to be brokenhearted for a wrong person, than to be mistakenly "settled" with the wrong one and miss the opportunity to be with someone who will love you more than anybody does.

first i wanna say im sorry for what happened to u..u must be very distressed and heartbroken.. im sure u still have feelings for ur ex-bf.. but it seems that he already move on . ur nickname perhaps remind him of u,and the memories belong to u..but its just the memory..everything is different.. from my point of view,if a man really lovede u,,,everything about u will an untouchable part in his bottom of heart...so what u need to do is to move on like him..dont torment urself..u will find someelse in ur life..he is just one friend...anyway..best wishes for u

It means your ex- has not forgotten about you and he prefers using those names to nurse his broken heart. So bad that the lady who is currently in his life does not know she is being used, a puppet to represent you. Its so hurting for you, but I think the guy too is hurting in silence. Real love has ups and downs, but a loving heart would prefer not participating in such a game. A break-up is for physical bodies, but a heart always retain the love being missed. If he comes back, would you take him back?

I would be very upset if he used the same nicknames we used. My current boyfriend knows what my ex used for me and he doesn't use them and I would dream of using the same name for him as I used for someone else. It takes away from the relationship my current boyfriend and I have together. We need our own special names.

For me just waste your time just move on he is not love you anymore you have the reason to neglect it more to him now.

it looks like your ex has moved on. And about the nicknames, as much as you dont want your ex recycling your nicknames from your past relationship, sometimes it just cant be helped. Before I hated it when my BF would call me baby, because I've seen him with other girls when we were just friends, and he always called them baby. But now we call each other babe, baby, sometimes mommy and daddy (cause we just had our own baby boy), and it doesn't bother me anymore. I'm still friends with my ex, and him and his GF now are using our nickname from before. But it doesnt bother me anymore. I guess, you might still have feelings for your ex and maybe seeing him using your MILK and CHOCO nickname kinda makes you wonder what would it be like if you guys were still together???

This is a hard one personally I would feel miserable and really sick. Don't feel stupid because you showed your feelings, don't be so hard on yourself. Try not to visit his profile. It will only hurt you more and there is no need to do that to yourself. Wait and see what happens. If nothing happens let it be. And if it comes to your ex: it sounds cheap to come up with the same nickname, but it might be he did that for a good reason.