How to get back your lost love ?

Do you really want to win the person back? I mean, there could be reason that you have not given much importance to that person, and I guess, the other person wants to be free - if you really love that person set that person free - but if you feel like the person is your oxygen, then do anything to win that person back.

I live in an area of the USA called 'the rust belt'. The rust belt, is an area where the weather is hot in the summer, and yet freezing all winter. We have hard rain, and heavy snow. In order to deal with the snow, we spread salt on the roads. The salt does a good job of clearing snow from roads, but it also gets all over the cars, inside the cars, all over the parts and such. Between hot humid summers, and salt covered winters, these blend together to ruin metal, and corrodes it into... rust. Thus, 'the rust belt'. When a bit of metal is rusted away, it is gone. It is simply not there anymore. If you find rust on your car, there really isn't a way to fix it. You must cut the entire chunk of metal out of the car and replace it with new good metal. It can't be painted over, or sanded, or fixed. It must completely replaced with a new bit of metal, clean and perfect, unblemished by rust. Sometimes... relationships are like rust on the metal. When something eats away at that relationship, and turns it to dust, you can't really fix it. There is no "winning her back" or "winning him back". The relationship has been damaged too far. There is nothing to fix, because it has rusted away into dust. There are some mistakes that simply can't be fixed. Some errors and evils deeds that can't be undone. The metal of the relationship that was strong and held together, has rusted away into dust, and you can't put those bits together anymore. Each relationship is different, and each situation is different, and so I don't know about any specific one, but if there is nothing there, you can't make something there.

If he doesnt feel the same way as I did. I would just accept the fact that I blew it. If you dont give importance to them the first time around what would make them think that you would give them importance this time?