Why its hard to find someone like Her again ???
By thepank
@thepank (201)
India
11 responses
@pbbbsra (1214)
• Philippines
30 Aug 11
They say even twins are not identical. We may look like another person but the way we are can never be exactly the same. Our personality are unique and all of us are deferent. I guess finding someone exactly the same is not easy. You can find someone better or exactly opposite to that person. We can't find someone and replace her for someone else. That is unfair for the new person and unfair for the one who left.
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@rina2011 (176)
• India
30 Aug 11
I think thats not very easy to find out some one special and Impossible thing is you never find out Over gain, so please do not talk about lost, thats a very painful experience by " I Think So" Still I am Searching some one special, hope I will Find......................
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@birdie816 (1276)
• United States
30 Aug 11
well i felt that way about my husband back when he was still my fiance. we had broken up then and it felt like the end of the world. but thank God we got back together or else i honeslty don't know what i would do. i just don't believe that i could find another guy like him who i have such a connection with. i've never really laughed as hard as i have with him....he is truly one of a kind. and to aanswer your question, it is probably hard because possibly a person only truly falls in love once...that's just what i believe
@sender621 (14893)
• United States
30 Aug 11
Sometimes when we lose that someone special we don't think that anyone can ever fill the space in our hearts that they held. Our expectations are so high on the next relationship that it makes it difficult to find someone again because we are still looking for the one we have lost.
@Ryanyuan123 (95)
• China
2 Sep 11
So you should find a person who is appropriate to you,never according to the first one's criteria.After a period of getting on with her,you will find her special and forget early hurt.something/someone may never come back when you lost it/him/her. But your life needs go on. That is life.
@chicksdigscars (5483)
•
31 Aug 11
I cannot answer this form a relationship point of view, because anyone I’ve ever lost hasn’t been the one for me. I am now very lucky to have found my soulmate and I am happy and she is all mine.
However I have lost very special friends! And I have had relationships with people that have ended and we don’t speak anymore, and I wish we had never had a relationship and just always were friends because I miss their friendship.
Time is a great healer.. and she obviously wasn’t the one for you, because what is FOR YOU, doesn’t go BY YOU! :)
@soulist (2985)
• United States
30 Aug 11
It is always hard to find someone who is exactly like the person you just broke up with. They are so special to you for different reasons and I dont think there will be someone who is exactly like her. But you will find that special someone.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
30 Aug 11
If you keep thinking about that someone and never let go of the past, that is the reason why you can't move on and live with the past.
I know it's not easy to forget someone you love so much..but letting go and acceptance is the only way to moved one and find another love.
have a good day
jaiho®
@JackieJensen08 (221)
• Philippines
30 Aug 11
Hi pank, Losing someone is heart breaking but it doesnt mean you stop there life must go on. There is always lesson learn in every story. I do hope you'll find that one.