he is not into you right?

one of my daughters told me about how she had an argument with a friend of hers, when my daughter told her friend that the friends ex boyfriend was completely over her, etc. the next thing i heard they were back together. but my lovely daughter isn't the most tactful person on earth, so i am sure you can handle it better, but i would only do what is absolutely necessary to avoid harm, if she is in danger of making a complete fool of herself, then warn her, if she just still has a bit of a crush on him, then i would leave it.

I feel sad for her even though I have never understood this feeling. I would think someone not liking her would help her get over him? I guess not..I wonder if she has any illusions that 'maybe..just maybe..someday he will come around'? It's sad she is wasting time with this guy when there are many guys 'out there' but she is missing them.

If the two of you really are friends, I guess she can understand if you would tell her, only after bouts of narrow-mindedness and ignoring would ensue. But telling her would greatly help. The relationship, in my perspective, is unhealthy. It is beautiful to love and be loved in return. But to love and to be disrespected in return? Good call to leave!