Is that good to be too frank to the lover?

I think it's very important to be totally honest in a relationship. This way you can build trust between eachother. I personally hate when my girlfriend hides things from me, so now she tells me everything so I am able to see the real her. You're not doing anything wrong, just make sure that you don't go into extreme details about your 'very personal' past.

Even though,i don't have a boy friend..i think we must frank if they are frank towards.,so times i think having a boy friend will be nice,but after only i think about my studies and if they cheat us i will not handle it., so if you think he is frank,then do bother your friend and love him much frankly., before that had a search about his past time,so that you can find his real behaviour,thank you..!

I never keep anything from my boyfriend. We share everything in our lives good or bad. I mean if I cant share it all with him who can I share everything with? He should be the one person that I can share personal things with.

Hello! It's really good to be frank to your lover and even to everyone. I can't see wrong of being frank and be honest to our self. Being honest to once lover is the best thing you should do, because by doing that you can measure your lover how he loves you. By this you can decide to yourself whether you are be with him or same to your lovers too. There's a saying says "Honesty is the best policy" so why we tell a lie being frank, for me is the best thing we do.

on the point of view of a man...there is nothing wrong being a frank but it doesnt mean also its OK to be frank all the time...it becomes like a nag if it become routinary...as a rule for both parties...there are things keep to yourself so to maintain self trust and confidence...being frank is a double edge sword...for a liberated guy is ok and its just a brush off from the shoulder...but for a conservative guy it becomes dominating...but for a guy in between its a balancing act. Whatever blurts in your mouth to your boyfriend about urself and people around shows the person who are. In a relationship start little by little to be franks until both you stabilizes and accepts the person who you are but dont make it routinary when in the relationship become plateau.

I think it's important that you're honest to your other half.If they really like you,they will accept you no matter what.If they can't then that just shows that they were never really in love with you in the first place.I think being honest is also a good way to test how true the persons love is really.

For me yes if it is your attitude to talked not a liar thing.

Hi shineveramya, I think your friend is right when she said you must not tell everything to your lover. He might use it against you. the only person yu could trust is GOD. Some guys are not so good and will take advantage on you.So please be careful on what you say to your partner. In my part, I don't tell my deepest secrets to him for there will be no excitement if he knows everything. I think excitement and mystery is significant for a relationship to last long, for both parties crave at each other. I just love it when I found out new about him, it giggles me!

According to me be pure and true honest partner and be frank with your lover ..but if u feel him as ur lover then why to hide anything if u have any dought on him then its bad thing be ..give your 100% god will never ever allow anyone to hurt you ..be frank be happy dear

Well, I don't think I'd be too frank with a lover depending on how long I've known the person. Usually, just the basic things where we can share to each other so long as it's all fine and we're honest with each other. Because if I were dating someone for not too long, I don't think I'd be too open.

There is a big difference between being honest and being frank (telling everything). If your friend is telling you with every misunderstanding, discussion or fight that he knows you because you did this or that etc.. he is abusing your trust in him. There is no need to share everything with him, tell him everything. Especially not if it comes to information you give him about other people (your parents, brother, friends, etc). Your boyfriend will use that against them too in time (if he doesn't already is doing that). I think your friends are right. You should learn to know what to tell and what not. Especially since you know your boyfriend better by now. Being honest means you don't lie and tell the truth. Also: if you are frank it doesn't mean he is frank to you too.

Shineveramya, this is only an opinion and does not intend to compliment, contradict or bewrong your action. It is normal to tell stories to each other for a newly engage couple, since you haven't had anything to talk about yet. It's something like feeling the likes and dislikes to avoid trouble - because you are not only educated but also cultured to the tune of the present time. You never was frank yet in your story, assuming that is it. Frankness is to tell someone, in person, what it has that it need not and/or must - do and/or change. Frankness denote direct description of the negative traits as to knowledge, skills, attitude and/or habits, to mention few. Example, you are frank if you tell your lover his bad breath, if he truly has. That is not frankness if you tell him he has bad breath when ha does not have - it is called "insult". It's frankness if you tell him he has a lousy fashion, if he truly dress out of place - that is insult if it's not. It's frankness if you tell your lover about his lowly intellect - this time do it lovingly with passion and correct choice of words. Your lover's connecting your stories to your conflicts makes him ...- may be educated but not cultured. Every conflict is different from the rest - unless they are really connected. But mistake does not attribute to the attitude of human as a person. As I initiate, this is just an opinion - Rules of spouse's in the past of "No Secrets" is not true always and most often than not, it is not true at all. You may have a secret agent lover boy - you need him not his job, but it is what it is. Your choice.

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