You suppose bad luck is inherited?
By bonnie
@bunnybon7 (50973)
Holiday, Florida
August 30, 2011 10:12pm CST
My poor daughters. The one I dont get along with as I had a discussion about before. Had breast cancer surgery before she made the trip from ohio to see me. thats right. breast cancer same time, month etc. as her mom
, (me) anyway, it was a week before her birthday. about all of us have birthdays in august but my youngest daughter in September. so, with myself, oldest daughter, and my son all had birthdays this month. almost the worst month of our lives. anyway, my youngest daughter, that loves and cares for me always, will be there by me the day of my surgery and after it to help me. my surgery date
September 6st. this same daughters birthday. she says, "Happy birthday to me"
talk about bad luck. i just hope i make it through ok so, she wont be hurt on her birthday the rest of her life. have you ever thought your bad lucks inherited by your kids and you might have inherited it from your parents? i wonder.
, (me) anyway, it was a week before her birthday. about all of us have birthdays in august but my youngest daughter in September. so, with myself, oldest daughter, and my son all had birthdays this month. almost the worst month of our lives. anyway, my youngest daughter, that loves and cares for me always, will be there by me the day of my surgery and after it to help me. my surgery date September 6st. this same daughters birthday. she says, "Happy birthday to me" talk about bad luck. i just hope i make it through ok so, she wont be hurt on her birthday the rest of her life. have you ever thought your bad lucks inherited by your kids and you might have inherited it from your parents? i wonder.5 people like this
12 responses
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
31 Aug 11
most of mine might have been brought on by myself but theres been times, my daughter and i both have done everything possible to live right and make the right choices and it still went wrong. 
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@moonlitmagikchild (22181)
• United States
5 Sep 11
hmm this is a hard one for me to answer. such things as cancer or other health issues can be inherited on their own but i do think some families just cant buy a break and it does pass down generations.. of course as long as they believe they have inherited it will also keep it going. a relative thought my family was cursed but to me i didnt see it yet my mom has had cancer 4 times that she inherited from both parents and a slew of other health problems and i have a ton of health problems (the only other female) where my brothers are never sick.. i DO think im cursed whenever its a holiday or ive made plans.. holidays and birthdays for a few years straight some one in my family would end up in the hospital or something health wise happen and any time i make plans i swear i either have my fibro flare up or i somehow injure myself to where i cant go.. maybe im just in denial =P
@moonlitmagikchild (22181)
• United States
21 Sep 11
i hate it when im called that! lol im a realist and i like to be prepared for the worst so im never surprised with what could be a bad outcome and a lot of people think that makes me a pessimist.. of course if your asking about my health that is depressing and i prob sound like one on that lol but im blunt and honest and for some reason people dont LOVE that =p
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
6 Sep 11
no not denial. but its a good thing that you dont believe or buy into it. its just my way. people always say im a big pessimistmy biggest problem is believing what i shouldnt be.1 person likes this
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
30 Sep 11
Well i suppose that sickness are inherited; people who have cancer would mean somehow that their offsprings would or could possibly have inherited that gene too.
but then, you know i have this friend who told me that sometimes a family is "cursed" especially when there seems to be a sickness thhat runs in the family and everyone suffering from it... it has got to be broken at least. Refuse to let the sickness eat you up, refuse to let the sickness break you down so you do not have to pass it on to your offsprings, daughters, or sons.
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
30 Sep 11
well i try but its not easy. when it seems every other famil;y i know at least has a break from things now and then. 
@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
31 Aug 11
I have a friend whose female relatives all got br*st cancer and from what I know it was all around the same decade, so when she started to get it, she had to have surgery. As for bad luck, it is a different situation. I do know that if you have a forefather who once was a Christian and goes against God, becomes an unbeliever, rebels, the effects can be felt in the offspring and perhaps they may be physical, And the mental effects do happen. I do think in your case, that it was genetic in that for some reason your parents both had the gene for getting br*st cancer and perhaps they were too closely related or as I suspect both the ancestors of your mother and those of your father came from the same area in Europe or the same village.
I know that I have friends where both their daughters have had a colconal implant because their parents came from the same area.
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
1 Sep 11
wow. yes it could be genetics. but my parents was not related. plus, non of my kids dads were related to me. except by marriage.1 person likes this
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
31 Aug 11
Seems like when bad luck starts it doesn't know when to quit. I wish the best for all of u.I'm sure u will be fine, bon. I know the waiting is driving u nuts. It would be me for sure.
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
1 Sep 11
I'm hoping & praying that every thing turns out fine. Why not celebrate her birthday day early??Would probably do u both good.
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
1 Sep 11
thanks friend. it will be fine if i can get through the surgery and perhaps things will start looking up and we can celebrate my daughters birthday late. 1 person likes this
@celticeagle (167019)
• Boise, Idaho
31 Aug 11
No. For some reason this is just going to have to be. Things happen for a reason. I believe in Fate. Something to be taught here about life or family dynamics or something. Bad luck is not inherited it just happens sometimes. At some point you will reaslize why this has all happened as it has.
@celticeagle (167019)
• Boise, Idaho
1 Sep 11
As i said I do believe in Fate and wonder why this has happened to you. Something here to learn.
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
1 Sep 11
maybe so. im still trying to figure out why my hubby had to die, concidering that was the only 8yrs of my life that was ever really good with luck. im thinking his good luck, which he always had until he got cancer that is exed out my bad luck for those 8 yrs.1 person likes this
@winterose (39887)
• Canada
31 Aug 11
it does appear that bad luck seem to run in families but we can all break that cycle, and we must always think positive life is so precious.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
31 Aug 11
hi b unnybon so Sept sixth is the date.I am going to send more prayers for you to come through beautifully and get well and be
cancer free and for your daughters too as its stressful for
all of you.You will make it through as we are all sending a ton
of our best prayers and our mylot prayers really are strong too.
Gpd bless you and hold you in his palm. hugs from hatley.
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
31 Aug 11
thanks sweetie. you are the best. yes it seems the prayers from here worked for you and is working most times for all of us. i will be broke going to surgery to until about the 17th of the month, so guess my poor daughter will count me as her birthday present if it turns out well. 
@bhanusb (5709)
• India
31 Aug 11
Hi bunny,
September is most important for you. Because that month is birthday of your children.You love your children. They also love their affectionate mom. They are concerned for their mother's health. To them mother's surgery is more important than their birthday. Children's love for you is the great gift for you.
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
2 Sep 11
thank you dear. its what i meant and you have the right words. 
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
1 Sep 11
Bon, let's pray for a successful surgery. Let's not try and think negativly. I don't think we are stricken with family bad luck as you say. I would rather pray and be positive then spend negative thoughts this way. I do see how the others happened, let just say they were coincidences.
I want you to be as positive as you possibly can as we want you relaxed and that all comes out well.
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
1 Sep 11
thanks sweetie its appreciated. i do try but no one knows how hard it is when really big things hit you from all sides thats life threatening. but iam trying to be positive. we will see. im not to good at that. 
@johnbrainlot (177)
• Greece
31 Aug 11
i dont believe bad luck is something that can be inherited. we make our choices and by choices comes "luck".
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
1 Sep 11
sorry. not so. others have not had bad luck 57 yrs out of 64 yrs that made same choices as i. 
