How Do You Feel About Being a Slave to a Schedule?
By betsyraeduke
@betsyraeduke (2670)
United States
August 31, 2011 10:27am CST
When recently asked what I most disliked about any given job (provided by an employer), I responded, schedules. That's right, schedules. I HATE punching a time clock! I dare say, there isn't much that bothers me more than being on someone else's schedule.
Now,although I know of many people who are not particularly fond of the idea of needing to go to work everyday, I have yet to meet anyone who is as bothered by a work schedule as I am. To clarify, the people I've met, they either like their jobs or not, but that aside, as for the schedule, they maybe think of it as 8 hours, give or take, out of their day, in which their time is owned by someone else.
To me, however, a work schedule is much more than an employer owning a mere few hours of my time. To me, it's more like they own, or at least, in some way, control my entire life! Or at least the major, most important parts of it anyway.
No, they don't dictate what I eat, or what sort of books I read, or anything like that. However, when you really think about it, a work schedule does dictate much more of your time and life than just those hours spent at work.
For instance, the time you are scheduled to be at work the next day, often determines what time you will need to go to bed, and what time you will need to get up. The time one needs to go to bed, or be at work, determines rather or not they are free to attend certain social and/or community events. A work schedule also dictates, when you can go on vacation or take any sort of trip....the list could go on and on.
Although, if you are used to, or like routines, and generally tend to go to bed at the same time every night, and get up at the same time every morning, work or not, I guess you wouldn't be bothered by that part of the equation. However, what if you are like me, and don't go to bed at the same time everyday and don't desire too?
I'm not sure if I'm making much sense, but to sum this all up, living on someone else's schedule, such as a work schedule, is something I find most depressing. Seriously, it has been known to reduce me to tears, which is why I stick with self-employment as much as possible.
I was just wondering, does anyone else feel this way about punching a time clock, or am I just weird?
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4 responses
@webb_jiang (158)
• China
1 Sep 11
It depends,in my personal life,I sort of hate the schedule,I want more flexibility,because schedule always gives me a lot of pressure,I don't like that,but in work,I think you have to work with plans and schedule because this will make you work more effectively.I sometimes just follow my old habit in my life,I don't like making exact schedules I just wake up in the moring when I used to wake up and eat my meal when I want to.
@johnbrainlot (177)
• Greece
1 Sep 11
when i go to work i know i have a time schedule to keep. and i am keen to it. it surely does not bother me at all. i am a little anxious though when the time comes to finish a work day. that is all. i work 8 hours a day five days a week.
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
31 Aug 11
I am the type of person who sleeps and wakes up at about the same time every morning and night regardless of whether I work or not that day. The other night I had to stay until midnight, and of course that meant my bedtime was off by hours, but I did sleep good and woke up only a little later then I usually do.
I used to not like schedules, but now they don't bother me. My question to you is, if working for someone else such as a grocery store, do you mind staying over or leaving early if they ask you to?
I'm usually staying over every day I work, and it doesn't bother me. I fully expect it and it's usually no more then one hour.
@wongchoiyee (7413)
• Malaysia
1 Sep 11
You are not weird. I am also like that. Thinking of my schedule which isn't exactly like the time to go to bed at 10pm, I just can't go to bed. I am depressing and frustrated and I hate my boss so much that everytime I fails to go to bed at the time exactly needed I will promise myself I won't go to work the next morning or I will just go to the office and put in a resignation letter. Its hard to imagine a schedule can mess up my life, my hobbies, and free time. On Saturday and Sunday night, I will be thinking about schedule life after a 2 days week off from work. Again, I will press myself to go to work for money. But life isn't like that. I feel not happy and I have go somewhere else to seek flexible jobs. A fixed job could drive me insane to sum up what I have thought about and only flexible jobs could save me.