What kind of man
By pro_ojha
@pro_ojha (600)
India
August 31, 2011 11:09am CST
Hallow myLot female friends
I want to know. A female, What kind of life partner want. Some women preferred finical security, some female preferred good looking man and some preferred good manner man. MyLot girls and women come take part in this discussion and make it huge.......
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13 responses
@huilichan8 (1378)
• Singapore
31 Aug 11
Financial security is important but it's not necessary. Looks are not important. Manners are important and necessary. Ultimately, what counts is whether he is a trustworthy man with a high level of integrity.
@huilichan8 (1378)
• Singapore
31 Aug 11
Yup, I believe so. But to me, it's not necessary as I don't need to depend on my husband (ie.if I am going to get married). I would rather be self-sufficient.
@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
31 Aug 11
hi pro,
a woman says - you cannot have it all.
for the single women out there, look for someone whom you see these qualities: compassionate, God fearing and respectful to parents, someone who makes you laugh and takes you out of your sad moods, and especially - someone responsible. so he doesnt have to be tall or dark or handsome, but of course, someone presentable.
ann
@unique16 (1531)
• United States
1 Sep 11
This is what I was looking for when I was dating a while back. Friendship first. That I can see person in different environments from freinds his and mine and family and if there are children involved. His living quarters and mine is he neat or sloppy or mess with organization too it. Will help fix things when they break in my home... does he ask me to help him with the ladder in house when he has to do something. Social manners in restraunts. His values and what his hobbies are and does he like sports and the outdoors. Is he gentle, funny and get along with most people. Is his emotional state stable for most months etc... When he does have outburts does he say sorry. Is he adaptable? like his routine only... now looks there has being something I feel attractive too his arms, his features on his face.
Most time for it is the eyes and his smile will be initial attraction or get me to notice him more etc..
Thanks unique16
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
31 Aug 11
Hmm there are quite some qualities I want in a man. First of all the man has to love me a lot and for who I am. I am not willing to change at all. If he loves me, he has to take my flaws and all. Secondly, I am attracted to people with good sense of humour. I like people who has life in him and can light up a place And well he has to be good looking too I guess but I am not too much on the looks. Average looks is fine with me too
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
31 Aug 11
But I do also believe I cannnot live without love
Money, we can earn money together. I am not looking for a rich man
@chicksdigscars (5483)
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2 Sep 11
It’s a womans prerogative to change her mind.. so she could want something different tomorrow ;) haha!
@celticeagle (168420)
• Boise, Idaho
1 Sep 11
I think that a man of good moral fiber and high intelligence is important. Boring to be with a man of low intelligence. Good moral fiber could mean a man with a big heart and one of generous ways. I would actually like a man of good financial security and good manner. All goodness is best.
@mindym (978)
• United States
31 Aug 11
Well, there has to be the initial attraction. But after that, I want a guy who has a great sense of humor, who will make me laugh frequently. He also needs to treat me well. This guy needs to get along great with my family and friends since they are a big important part of my life. Some extra money would help, but it is not necessary as long as he is working or actively looking for a job. He needs to accept me at my worst before he can have me at my best and I will not settle for anything less than what I deserve.
@Graceekwenx (3160)
• Philippines
1 Sep 11
My dreamboy is someone who is like a handyman because i am such a bozo when it comes to house repairs. This would also mean that he should be very responsible. Apart from that, i would want him to have a high sense of humor. Last but not the least, i would want us to share the same faith.
@Sanitary (3968)
• Singapore
1 Sep 11
MOst woman would prefer a perfect man, with everything we desire them to be, financially strong, good looking, talented, smart, humourous and most importantly faithful. With such good attribues, would man be contented with just one woman in his life? I don't think so.
For me, i'll want a man who's faithful to me and that's good enough. I don't mind him being poor or average looking, what matters is his love for me. With love, anything can happen.
@fabsprecious (1565)
• United States
31 Aug 11
Personally, for me is someone that is confident, down to earth, compasionate and loving. My hubby luckily has all those qualities, I love him and he loves me, we have a beautiful family and I know he would do and does anything for us. For me that is the most important thing!!!
@tishafayel (49)
• Philippines
1 Sep 11
Most women preferred to chose their ideal man others in their destiny. But for me, I like those who are gentleman and respects me always .
@kry893 (222)
• Canada
1 Sep 11
I do think I'd be happy enough if my partner actually loves me and to love me for who I am, the me in ME and not what I have or how I look like. As for me, I only desire for a life partner who is honest, loyal, trustworthy. I don't mind how he looks like or how much money he has. Just as long as he is honest and doesn't lie to me, doesn't cheat on me and cares for me, I think I shall be very happy and satisfied with him. I don't think it's the look that matters anyways. I have a friend who is married to a guy who is shorter than her in height and may not be the most handsome man around but according to her, her hubby loves her and is very caring toward her and is a very sincere man. To her, she said she's more than happy to just be with him.