Friends with benefits....
By rajputash
@rajputash (384)
India
August 31, 2011 11:45am CST
I dont know thats the literal meaning of FWB but as in the movie there is a scenario like no boy and no girl can be friends with each other, i mean they get other feelings but all they do is they are afraid to express them and just be friends, will you guys agree to this? i mean did you face the same scenario...?
2 responses
@YoungInLove (1254)
• Canada
2 Sep 11
FWB is an absolutely horrible idea and people still do it even though its so complicated. It is and always will be a messy situation. One person usually ends up getting feelings (how could you not its almost like having a relatinship minus the I love you's) or one of the people ends up getting together with someone else and the person ends up jealous, etc etc. The scenarios are endless. I fully believe girls and guys can be great friends, assuming theres no cuddling or fooling around EVER, that changes everything
@RDotson (51)
• United States
1 Sep 11
I personally do not feel that it is ever a good idea to have a FWB. You are correct in stating that maybe feelings could begin to occur and then you have to either make a decision to move into a new phase as boyfriend and girlfriend or you have to try to save your friendship, which is very hard to do at that point. I believe that before someone tries to have a FWB they should think very long and hard if they are willing to take the chance of losing this person as their friend.
