Jealousy
By Judy890
@Judy890 (1644)
United States
August 31, 2011 7:17pm CST
Almost are girls are jealous of me I'm a real nice and quiet person I stay to myself and a lot of people find me very friendly but most girls give me dirty looks. I have a feeling it's because of the way I dress I wear the latest trends and have on a different pair of shoe everyday and wear my hair in different styles as well and some people compliment the way I dress. I'm In college you'd think in college everyone is mature and focused on school but Wronggggg they are just as immature as students from high school. I would hear whispering on how I'm a wannabe model or I dress this way to show off. One time I heard one say to her friend that she felt like cutting my hair. A lot of girls are extremely jealous I don't know why, What do you do if people are jealous of you?
11 responses
@moneywinner (1864)
• Brazil
1 Sep 11
You don't have to do anything, just continue to live your life. Keep with your friends and forget about the others girls, they want that you worry about them.
@tiina05 (2317)
• Philippines
1 Sep 11
hello,
Its alright? Though I also experiencing this kind of situation like yours because I see myself to you. But well all I do is not to give them attention at all because it just makes me like them. An immature student that like a high school one. 
I just maintained my looks and the way I dressed. alright?
I just maintained my looks and the way I dressed. alright?
@Triple0 (1904)
• Australia
1 Sep 11
Oh yes, jealousy the green-eyed monster. It's always the girls who are more susceptible to jealousy and you just can't help it. It's a bad feeling but we're human, we all feel it. I'd say keep a low profile and brush off those envious looks. Maybe rub it in and approach them, try to befriend the girls and be nice to them to show how nasty they've been by judging you like that. If that doesn't work, let them be, you should be proud of who you are and no one's stopping you.
It's sad to hear that even college students are acting like immature high school girls.
@ErikaRenee (27)
• United States
1 Sep 11
I would just pay them no mind a do me my sister is jealous of me I don't know what's worse a chick being jealous of u or sister I got engaged last much and do you that I got am happy for you Sis nope so don't worry about them other chicks they wish they were you just like my sister wish she were me when I had my son 3 years ago she was hatin the whole time yeah she's one of them type of chicks
@cvsuperman16 (72)
• Philippines
1 Sep 11
Jealous may not be the right word. I think they are just insecure or they are bitter about their own lives. Your just be yourself and don't mind other people. You don't need them anyway. One true friend is all you need.
@stanley777 (9402)
• Philippines
1 Sep 11
Maybe they are just envious with you. Because they can not afford to wear the same things you are wearing. As long as you are enjoying yourself why would you care. Unless you have done something to them that makes them jealous of you. But as you have said you are a nice and a quiet person minding her own business and in fact many appreciates you the way you are, so don't mind them.
@starrose_ara (784)
• Philippines
1 Sep 11
Nobody can blame us if we are jealous but what we do when we are jealous is a different matter. Just be sure that it does not eat you up. You can be constructive on how you react to jealousy like making yourself better. For the other people who are jealous of me. I am only human not to feel no pain. They can be a bit catty with their remarks. I just shrug it off after confiding with a friend. After that I just leave it at that. It is a negative emotion that I don't want to have.
@naseemkum (1803)
• India
1 Sep 11
Im really happy to hear people are jealous of ur beauty. Its a great feeling that peoples admire u. Some people get jealous of me because of my singing talent. People gets jealous of other people beauty talent or attitude is ok for me. But people jealous of another people money wife or valuable things wil create problem.
@atravers26 (20)
• United States
1 Sep 11
Don't worry what other people think and say. They are jealous of you not you of them.
