How will you react if your partner will tell you "You are making self-pity".. ))

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We had a petite argument recently, it raised my eyebrow and i had to talk back.Until telling me that i'm making a self pity. it so happened that i was having a multi -tasks in order to finish everything before the sun start to shine.I have to shout my children telling them if they are ready for school since i'm in the kitchen doing multi job while they are eating, instead of assisting them in the dinning.Maybe my partner observed what i was doing and he was maybe irritated or he felt that i wanted to caught his attention. So he told me why not do all that chores when we are gone, so i have to answer him back that i'm running out of time, and i want to accomplish everything before our youngest will go to school, and he said that I'm always having a reason and i'm not listening to him and I'm always making myself right at all time. I just put myself into silent because my children are listening.But what hurts me must is that telling that i'm having a self pity. I wanted to text or call him but i know he always fell that he is right.he has that superiority in him. Wew! i wanted to realize him that things at home is really difficult doing household chores.Thanks mylot for this site i can already express myself.