My father
By SydneyJ
@SydneyJ (902)
United States
September 1, 2011 12:51am CST
About two days ago my father called saying he had a doctor appointment but it wasn't a big deal just something the doctor wanted to look into. But both yesterday and today I was told that the rumor at his work place and even from my younger sister (she didn't tell me directly she told my mom) that my father is going into surgery tomorrow. Why wasn't I told this? Me any my dad don't have a really close relationship but still.
I've been told he's having surgery to repace blood vessle (maybe veins I don't really know) in his neck and he's not suppose to stay home alone for a little while after incase something happens? I feel like I should of been in formed a little so I could really know what's going on.
Would you tell everyone but your child if this was happening to you?
2 responses
@vikas121 (296)
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1 Sep 11
I think if your sister had been told, you also should have been told, its your parents fault. You said you don't have a good relationship with your father, so he didn't tell or there may be some other reason. But don't be negative. Just pray for his good health. Being pessimist is not good anyway.
I am also not told many family incidents but reason for that I live far away from home.
@hafiz008 (450)
• India
1 Sep 11
Dont be upset about it. It is not the matter you have to concerned now. You must have to care your father and pray for him to get well soon. you can ask him when your father get well. I think it they have not told because you must not worry about it. You will understand parent's love when you became a parent. There may be certain reason and ask your sister in a normal way.
