Dont post your status if you dont want to let the whole world know what happened
By rhane7315
@rhane7315 (5649)
Philippines
September 1, 2011 1:40am CST
i, myself, doesn't post such things in facebook that happens in my life because i want to keep it private.
it just happens that my friend (since high school) got pregnant and her boyfriend leaves her. but before her boyfriend leaves her, the guy confronts my friend's mom and told her that he will marry my friend. he will just go to his province so that he could get some of the documents that are needed for their civil wedding. but that was just only a word of mouth. after he confronted my friend's mom, he cut the communication (facebook, cellphone, etc.) to my friend. weeks and months have passed and he's nowhere to be found. so as a friend, i was kinda furious of what he did to her. then we just found out that the guy had another woman that's why he cut all the communications. we keep telling her that she shouldn't hope that the guy would come back to her because he's a womanizer. the more that she anticipates and hopes that the guy would come back to her, the more she gets hurt and the baby's getting affected also.
then lately, my friend posted something on her wall something like how she wishes that the guy would get back at her and that he would keep his promise. then one of her relatives commented that there are some girls who keeps chasing guys even if the guy doesn't like/love them anymore, they (some girls) still want them badly. i commented and ask her relative "how about her (my friend) situation? does that count regarding her situation?" then after a few minutes my friend texted me that she was annoyed of what i commented because some of her relatives and other friends doesn't know what really happened on her. i told her that i was sorry and i'm only human so i sometimes make some mistakes and told her that she shouldn't posted something like that if she doesn't want the whole world to know about it. the way she posted it is way too obvious.
so i guess that's a lesson learned for her. how about you guys, did you ever encounter something like that?
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4 responses
@rhane7315 (5649)
• Philippines
2 Sep 11
she's definitely weird or is it that because she's not in herself lately because of what happened on her. i don't want to be mean on her by saying such things that could hurt her feelings though
@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
1 Sep 11
Halleuer to your friend! What was she thinking blaming others for what happened when in the first place it's her that first posted about her situation? Why is she being defensive after all the things that have happened to her? And besides, even if it's a secret to her relatives, they will know about it eventually. At least they learned about it from her friend (you) who is not judgmental of her situation.
And your friend should learn how to accept the fact that the guy will not come back to her anymore. He's already a new girl and he has moved on already, apparently. It's a waste of time to wait for that kind of guy.
@rhane7315 (5649)
• Philippines
2 Sep 11
yeah, i want to slap her just to let her realize that the guy's not coming back to her and he's happy with another woman
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@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
2 Sep 11
Sometimes, you really want to do with your friend even if she's your friend! I have friends like that! Head over heels some worthless guys. 
@conbill (369)
• United States
2 Sep 11
I have to agree with you 100%. Not only is she letting the whole world know her business but what you post may follow you forever. I mostly play games on facebook. My private life is my business and if I want to share it with a friend it definitely would not be on any internet site. People need to stop and think before hey post if it is something they want to share with the world.
