Do you look at or talk to the one standing next to you in th etoilet?

India
September 1, 2011 9:38am CST
Hi Friends, This question came in my mind last Wednesday in my office toilet when IO was there and a another colleague looked at me and started talking, I was not feeling so good about it and tried to discourage him from talking to me but he probably he did not get my point. Did it ever happen to you?
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stary1
@stary1 (6612)
• United States
12 Sep 11
wow...it never occurred to me that you guys would feel uncomfortable. You are in a public room instead of a stall anyway, so I would think it would be ok for someone to talk to you. Interesting that's not true..maybe a stall would be better???
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AjaySinghBaghel
@AjaySinghBaghel (5506)
• India
23 Oct 11
I do not have that choice as will have to use the one where 4-5 people can use it at a time .. Thank you for sharing.
stary1
@stary1 (6612)
• United States
23 Oct 11
Yikes..well I am sory that is the case ..if I were a guy I don't think I woild like thus AT ALL
starsailover
@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
5 Sep 11
Hi Ajay Singh Baghel: I can understand the reason why you feel uncomfortable. Actually when I am in the toilet I need all teh privacy, I don't feel comfortable at all if I have to speak in a situation like this. It's just annoying . ALVARO
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starsailover
@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
12 Sep 11
Yes, this person chose one of the worst places to talk with you. Thanks for the best response by the way. ALVARO
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AjaySinghBaghel
@AjaySinghBaghel (5506)
• India
10 Sep 11
True, that is a private space and no one should get into others zone. Thanks for sharing.
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cream97
@cream97 (29086)
• United States
14 Sep 11
Hi, AjaySinghBaghel. No, not with my colleague. But if it was with my child, I would talk to them to make sure that they are using the bathroom properly. I believe that I would feel uncomfortable with looking or talking to any colleagues that I work with.
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AjaySinghBaghel
@AjaySinghBaghel (5506)
• India
23 Oct 11
I was not comfortable with this .. may be there are many who will have no issue with this .. Thank you for sharing.
anil2154
@anil2154 (145)
• India
1 Sep 11
No it has never happened with me but it feels strange when this happens.
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AjaySinghBaghel
@AjaySinghBaghel (5506)
• India
10 Sep 11
I felt strange but now I avoid all this :)
stary1
@stary1 (6612)
• United States
12 Sep 11
Can you just use a stall??
emjay86
@emjay86 (640)
• Philippines
2 Sep 11
That is just intrusive. It is a private moment. If the guy is comfortable with it, he should be sensitive enough that others just are not.
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AjaySinghBaghel
@AjaySinghBaghel (5506)
• India
10 Sep 11
Hope he does not do this again to anyone. Thanks for sharing.
AbhaySinghBaghel
@AbhaySinghBaghel (4)
• India
11 Sep 11
Hmm, That is not so good habit, one should about talking to people in the toilet. I will never do this for sure and would suggest all not to do so. Thanks,
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AjaySinghBaghel
@AjaySinghBaghel (5506)
• India
23 Oct 11
yes, this is not a good habit at all .. there are many places where you can talk and this can be left for the original purpose Thank you for sharing.