Friendship between opposite gender.!

@bond027 (107)
India
September 1, 2011 12:17pm CST
Hello Friends..!I am here to discuss one of the oldest topic in our life that is friendship between opposite gender..to be more precise between a girl and a boy..! As far as I am concern a boy and a girl can be just friends but best friends is not possible..I have seen many cases with my friends here who have ended up in love which sometime back started with best friendship...Haha..Strange:-D So my point of view I would say best friendship can only be in between same genders..:-)What do you think guyzzzz.....????
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12 responses
• United States
2 Sep 11
I think males and females can be friends and nothing more. I think sometimes it ends up being more when we are lacking or needing something in our lives. But sometimes guys can be just friends I believe. Both people need to be on the same page about the friendship.
@Jlyn10 (11965)
• Malaysia
2 Sep 11
I don't think that best friends should be in the same gender. In fact, my best friend is a guy. We have been friends for many years already. And we are very close. He is married and have a family of his own. And we always stay in touch with each other.
@unique16 (1531)
• United States
2 Sep 11
Hello, I disagree too here. What happens after the breakup? Yes, guy and girl can be best friends. Sometimes it even better than when they hooked up because this way they really know each other and look out for each other. What about high school and middle school... sometimes they stay friends throughout a life time. I a guy freind were item but it did not work out. We are still friends and helps me fix things on the house and he knew when I dating other people it did not bother him. It all depends on how the relationship ends on good terms or bad terms. We always try to end it on good terms. Thanks Unique16
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
2 Sep 11
Friend for me it is possible for this you can read my discussion my unforgettable moment of college life. We all girls and boys was good friends.. No not necessary best friends only in between same gender...
@anitha123 (252)
• India
2 Sep 11
There is more possibility that friendship between a boy and girl ends in love. Because the care taken by friends highly influences each other and leads to the stage in which both cannot be separated. It will not even be love. They just like to be together. So they will decide, that if they want to stay together they should Love and get married. This is what actually happens.
• Malaysia
2 Sep 11
Yes,I agree on your statement about good friends can only be between same gender..But if being best friends with the opposite gender will only create more problem as the relationship will advance to another stage such as boyfriend n girlfriend..Or it might created jealousy between them when his or her best friends came in close contact with another boy or girl.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
1 Sep 11
There is nothing wrong having friendship with opposite gender. I am not sure if best friend issue always leads to having intimate relationship or falling in love. I know some people who have good relationship a boy- girl friendship that never leads to falling in love or love issues. So, it maybe it's a case to case basis- may happens with some,and not for most. have a good day jaiho®
• Philippines
2 Sep 11
I think it can be possible. But in most cases it is difficult not to fall in love to the other person. Some people would prefer the friendship over the love affair because if the relationship fails it is difficult to restore the friendship.
@ritzz07 (788)
• India
1 Sep 11
hi bond i am not agree with you here that best friendship can only be in between same gender..........i many female friends and they are my best friend some are married and still they are my bestfriends thank you have a great day
@waflay (2737)
• Nairobi, Kenya
1 Sep 11
It is very possible to have a good friend from opposite gender. I'm saying this because I'm in such kind of friendship and it has been like this from 2004. Actually, we started this friendship when we were at school- one level but in different schools. We had school revisions together, working on school projects and educating each other until we completed high school. Our stories changed from school life to real life from then. Up to now, we are still communicating but we have our own lives, living in different places.
@ankitbhat (269)
• India
1 Sep 11
dude it all depends upon your own mentality if you can control your harmones then surely can be a best friends with anyone
@huilichan8 (1378)
• Singapore
2 Sep 11
If a guy and a gal are indeed best friends, they will eventually end up falling in love with each other. I think it's something that's inevitable.