have you ever been accused of cheating?
By birdie816
@birdie816 (1276)
United States
September 1, 2011 7:55pm CST
i have. it was the worst thing ever because i knew that i would never cheat. i really loved this person. how did you take it when they accused you? did you ever clear your name?
5 responses
@Judy890 (1644)
• United States
2 Sep 11
Hello birdie816,
Yes I have been accused of cheating there was a guy who constantly kept accusing me it was so annoying that I wanted to end the relationship but guess what he was the one doing the cheating. So when a guy keeps accusing you of cheating when you're not its them that are cheating and they feel guilty so they keep asking you hoping you will say are so that they wont feel alone on cheating on you.
@birdie816 (1276)
• United States
3 Sep 11
yeah it's always the guilty ones who accuse people of cheating the most. it's just sad
@singuri (571)
• India
2 Sep 11
Yes, I had a bad experience regarding this. One day, I in my school, exam answer sheets were given to us. I found that for some answers marks were not given. So, I told my teacher about this. She immediately accused me of cheating. She accused me that I have written the answers after answer sheet correction. I felt bad about that. even I tried to convince here but she scolded me for what I haven't done.
@birdie816 (1276)
• United States
3 Sep 11
lol technically i was referring to cheating in relationships but this is bad too, because it can get you kicked out of a school (in college at least).
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
2 Sep 11
It happens to me...just hours ago I can say.
I even created a poem to let that person knows how much I loved him.
it hurts when you are being accused of thing you never ever think of.
I understand what you feel, but this is a part of love.
Once we love someone and fall in love , we must be ready to be hurt and get scar.
have a good day 
jaiho®
jaiho®@birdie816 (1276)
• United States
3 Sep 11
very true. and i know the scars must still be kinda open then if this happened so recently. i hope you get everything straightened out
@obe212003 (2299)
• Philippines
2 Sep 11
several times, lol! honestly, i was flirting but i know my limitations and really had no intention of having an affair. trust is really hard to obtain and you have to be constantly reassuring your partner of your commitment to him/her. typically a heart-to-heart talk with utmost sincerity would be a good way of clearing whatever doubt there is.
@birdie816 (1276)
• United States
3 Sep 11
yeah but in my opinion you should not even be flirting lol...but that is just me. if you dont take it farther than that i guess it's not really hurting anybody
@MrsBone344 (48)
• United States
26 Oct 11
I have been accused of cheating before. I didn't do anything to make him not trust me. Almost every other week he would do this. A couple of sources tell me that he was seeing other woman and supposedly getting married too. When I found this out, I was hurt and pissed. I felt like a fool and of course he denied it. Only the guilty ones would make such accusations and long story short, I thank God I'm no longer with him. I couldn't take it no more, the lies, lack of trust, and the arguments.
