What are the characteristics of a nagger wife?
By biach17
@biach17 (196)
Philippines
September 1, 2011 8:15pm CST
i dont consider myself as a nagger because when im angry i dont talk.
when i like something to do by someone i will just say it thrice...
First is to give him what to do, second to remind him..and for the third time is to tell him not to forget. that,s all....
this 3 times of telling is not in one day it could be for a whole week or month....
so am i a nagger?
my answer is not.
i am a wife and a mother and it is our nature to say something to someone we love our concerns that will make them do better and think better....
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6 responses
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
4 Sep 11
My interpretation of a nagger is one who does not know how to leave things go. They continually days on end will forever bring up what needs to be done and or what was not done.
So no I don't think you are a nagger. There are some who need a reminder or two and actually after one reminder it really should be done by then.
@sid556 (30959)
• United States
3 Sep 11
Hi Biach,
I'm not in your home so I really can't judge if you are a nagger or not. If you are sweetly just reminding him over time of something then NO you are not a nagger. I will say that the silent treatment is just as bad as nagging and maybe worse. I lived with a man who gave me the silent treatment all the time and I hated it so so much. Most of the time I had no clue as to what I'd done to upset him. I would have rather he let me know he was angry with me for whatever reason so that we could resolve it. I actually broke up with him because of it. I had told him that if he ever gave me the silent treatment again that I was out of there. Well, he didn't for the longest time and then it started up again. I warned him again. he went for a while and then the last time he did it was for ( I counted) 38 days. Communication is is important. I think it is better that you are talking to him about your feelings.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
2 Sep 11
I do same thing, the more angry I am, the more i keep silent.
Because I don't want to say things that I will surely regret after.
Yes,I sermon my kids when they did something wrong, or done mistakes that needs to be taken care of.
That's the time I do a lot of talking- if it is consider being a nagger or nagging.
But I need to, or else who will give my kids some explanation for things wrongly done.
but when it comes to my partner/hubby...no, I always avoid having argument because I know I will regret bad words after.
So,I always keep in silent until I know I can handle myself and temper.
have a good day
jaiho®
@pahak627 (4558)
• Philippines
2 Sep 11
I guess you're not a nagger. Well for me a nagger is that who always say our mistakes for so many times. I have a friend whose husband we consider a nagger. Every time her husband gets drunk, he will tell his wife about her mistakes in the past until the wife cried and just said nothing at all. She's a martyr because her husband has no permanent job and yet he's the one who always start a quarrel against his wife about past mistakes. The wife is the breadwinner of the family.