Love Warning

Okay did he give you the explanation as to why? I have never heard of this and I am confused as to the meaning. I am sure there is something to it so can you fill me in please.

why jackie, did he say you shuldnt fall for a guy in a spotlight? kidding he probably means that you should know the person well first. ann

Hi. JackieJensen08. Welcome to myLot! This is what I say to myself daily about people that I have not yet met. It is so hard to know how a person really can be! Time will just have to tell when it comes to figuring out a person for whom they really are. Sometimes, I wished that I could see a person for who they really are. Once I do this, I will be able to decide if I want to remain close to this person. A clear glass can give so much of evidence away when it comes to finding out more about a person.

I guess he is trying to tell you that you should really know the person before you fall in love with him. Maybe you should know his family, his hobbies, his likes and dislikes and a little of his past. I really think that even if you are together for how many years as long as you're not yet married there will always be some hidden character in him. So I can say that just be true, if you are happy with him and he can make you happy then go for it.

Never heard of that saying but if you fall in love you fall in love. Unless you stay away from all the people in the world or are able to tell yourself you don't want that anymore (some people are able to do so). I wonder if you are able to get people at all, but also if it is necessary to know everything about him/her and his/her family. For me it's enough if that person treats me right. That is what counts to me. Not how he/she was or what he/she did in the past or what his/her family did. Who am I to judge others? What is next after the fluorescent light? The x-ray?