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Hi friends, long time since i used this site .. good to be back though. and now i am here with a great confusion in my mind which is concerned with my friend and her guy of life. The story basically goes like they both have been in relationships past 4 years and admire each other a lot and even decided tat they will end up getting married for sure after pleasing each others parents. but now the problem here is the guy is not the type of person who usually pampers his girlfriend with lots of lovey dovey gifts . and everytime when she mentions to him about the gifts her friends get from their guys he just says " this is how i am and how i have been and i cant change myself for silly stuffs like this " and at the end he finishes the conversation by saying that she is behaving rude by comparing him with other guys who give gifts ... this has been going on for quite some time now but wqat actually happened very recently was tat she ended up asking her close friends as to what could be wrong between and who is to be blamed and she got the answer in the form of a blame letter towards him .. one of our common friends said tat if the guy is truly and madly in love with you he would go out of his way to gwet something to make his girl happy and even if he wasn't used to such things after she said she also likes gtting stuffs from her guy like her friends are getting he should have started sending her gift . he ended it sayig even a pauper gets something small atleast to make his girl happy so then why cant he when he is working???? hearing all this she is terribly heart broken but she is still in touch with him as he everyday tells her tat he loves her a lot and so does she.. please suggest me what actually could have gone wrong??? who is to be blamed ??? the girl or the guy or both ?? is craving for a gift from your boyfriend wrong??? please respond .have a happy day:)