Are you a man of big family standard or small family standard?

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Recently I watched a TV play which was a story of a couple and their parents. The hero was born in a poor village family and studied in a university which located in a big city. His families including mother, brother and sister saved every cent to support him. Before graduation he established a relationship with the heroine, who was born in a rich city family. She was the only child of her parents and never need to worry about her life. Ignoring the oppose from both parents, they got married swiftly. In order to make their daughter live better, the parents of heroine offered them a villa as their bridal chamber. Then the hero's families sold their land in the village and emigrated to the city, living in the villa with the couple. Due to the difference of ideas and habits, many conflicts occurred in this big family. The heroine thought that the hero should value the small family including only him and her. But the hero didn't agree with her. He thought that he had the obligation to improve the lives of big family members for they had sacrificed a lot for him. The families of hero also thought that the heroine had already been a member of the big family and should take advantage her social connections to help them since she married the hero. So what do you think of this problem? Do you agree with the hero or the heroine? I'm expecting for your opinions.