feelings for your best friends

Do you thing he has the same feeling for you? If yes, why not. In many cases, these are one of the strongest relationships.

I was in the situation where I had feelings for my best friend, and I had to live with that for many years. After two years of having feelings for him, I finally told him the way I felt and he told me that he was shocked and that he didn't know exactly how he felt himself about me. I felt silly having told him the way that I feel, and I think that he used me a lot because he knew he could get anything he wanted from me because I was desperate to hold onto him. Now, five years later, I'm happy to say that my feelings for him don't exist anymore and I'm really embarrassed that I ever felt that way about him at all.

Have the courage to tell your best friend about what you truly feel or else both of you will be stuck in whatever level of relationship you both have. I mean, you can't keep your feelings forever. Once your feelings are revealed you should also be ready on what comes next, if the feeling is not mutual then let go of it, remain as friends as much as you can. If you can't bear it then keep a distance for awhile, restructure yourself and move on. However, if the feeling is mutual, then lucky for you. You both can now go to the next level.

when i was in my college day's. I was very close to a guy...my best friend...it happens that you can't control anymore your emotions and feelings..but for the sake of friendship you will sacrifice but on you will able to show him how special he is in some other ways..I think i let him know how what i feel for him:)

I had male friends all my life but I never crossed the barrier of friendship. But if you think that your friend got the same feelings for you why wont you try? Maybe this is worth a risk?