Curses loudly into the air
By SilverVixen
@SilverVixen (284)
United States
September 2, 2011 3:58pm CST
I did not in any way deserve what one of my old friends did to me. Let's jump back about 2 years ago so you know why we don't talk anymore.
My husband and her b/f had been friends for years and he was always taking or breaking my husbands things(he even sold his guitar) so he was not a good friend. One day my friend (lets call her Katie) came over to get her b/f's psp but my man wouldn't give it to her. And since I did not know the terms on which it was loaned I couldn't take a side.(my man was supposedly going to give it back in the next 3 days or something) so they called us all sorts of names and my man decided to just keep it in exchange for the hundreds of dollars he cost him. They never came to get it and told us to never come over again. So whatever, the thing broke like 2 months later anyway.
And this morning I get an email on Facebook from an old friend who ran into Katie at walmart and asked about me since we used to be inseparable. Well it turns out Katie told her I got bad off on drugs and had a baby and smoked crack while I was pregnant. All these horrible things, oh and I went to rehab too. So I "might be okay now, but still smoke crack" All of which never happened, I am married with 2 kids but no drugs and never needed rehab.
So in her message she asks how I've been since rehab and b!tches me out and says my kids should be taken away. After I explain to her what happened she says sorry, but its not her fault she was misinformed.
I'm really p!ssed off that my old best friend would say that, especially since I am not the reason we don't talk. They started all the bull that happened but I'm having people think I'm on drugs? That's not okay with me. Makes me wonder what else she told people. And who all she told. I am so mad. I'm thinking about calling her to find out what the h3ll her problem is. But I should just let it go.... what would you do?
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4 responses
@spazz435 (322)
• United States
2 Sep 11
What you have to do know is think about was she really your friend? She may have been a good friend at one time but a true friend would not do something like that. Especially over a PSP. I think that what you need to do is just leave her be and live your life. Find new friends and show her that you can live your life and not care what she says. You know what you are and what you do. And if she can't accept that then that is her problem.
@ankitbhat (269)
• India
3 Sep 11
i completely agree with you that true friend wont ever do that
but you should talk to her or try to understand her
@SilverVixen (284)
• United States
6 Sep 11
The thing is, the psp agreement was made between my husband and her boyfriend. Neither of us were there so it doesn't make sense for her to butt in for something that she didn't have a clue in. Or get mad at me cuz I didn't want to pick sides over something stupid. But I've decided to just let it go. She's probably mad she lost a good friend for being stupid. I was always there for her. She even lived with me for a year when her mom just dropped her off. Maybe she will apologize one day. Till then I could care less about her.
@SilverVixen (284)
• United States
6 Sep 11
The thing is, the psp agreement was made between my husband and her boyfriend. Neither of us were there so it doesn't make sense for her to butt in for something that she didn't have a clue in. Or get mad at me cuz I didn't want to pick sides over something stupid. But I've decided to just let it go. She's probably mad she lost a good friend for being stupid. I was always there for her. She even lived with me for a year when her mom just dropped her off. Maybe she will apologize one day. Till then I could care less about her.
@PointlessQuestions (15397)
• United States
3 Sep 11
I would get whatever evidence in email and save it... and then file a law suit for defamation of character. You have grounds to sue this person for ruining your reputation.. I would file charges against her. I'd also find out if your other friend is spreading this around and if she is, I'd let her know that spreading this stuff is a crime and you will go after anyone who spreads anymore of these lies.
@PointlessQuestions (15397)
• United States
7 Sep 11
You could confront her and ask her why she has done such a vicious thing. You have every right to. You also have every right to tell her if she ever opens her mouth up against you that you will take her to court. That should stop her. I know you would probably rather just turn the other cheek, but then what if she really damages your name in town or on facebook or whatever?
@ravinskye (8237)
• United States
3 Sep 11
Some people just love to cause drama. I don't know if I'd call her out on it. If you stir things up again she'll probably just really start more drama. I had a girl like that. We were friends and all the sudden she started to get really weird with me. Next thing I know she's trying to get me fired from my job. I managed to save myself though. Then 6 months later out of the blue she calls in to where we used to work together. She tells them that I after she left her husband I started calling him and hitting on him and wanted to move in with him because I had a crush on him AND that I didn't know if my husband was the father of my baby!!! I was so ticked! That's a pretty strong accusation that could have caused real problems in my marriage had my husband believed it even for a second. I'd say just let it go and maybe put a thing out on facebook about the rumors in case some people heard it and don't know if it's true or not.
@SilverVixen (284)
• United States
6 Sep 11
that's horrible she would try to cause problems in your marriage. I don't understand why people, our friends, would do stuff like this. In what way does it benefit them, what do they get out of it? I guess they just like drama. Sorry u were a victim of "friend gone crazy" too.
@natliegleb (5175)
• India
10 Mar 13
that is bad and also hurting some one sentiment badly through facebook is highly intolerable,take a break and let it go always
