Women Safety Action Towards Men

@visavis (5934)
Philippines
September 3, 2011 7:05am CST
Hi there, Is it common action of women towards men or some are just come what may.. When a woman begins to feel a romantic connection with man, she faces an interesting problem... How can she tell for sure if your character and personality are the way you're expressing them? Meaning women are not sure or they are not trusted to men.. As we all know, men and women BOTH show off and exaggerate their "good sides" while downplaying and hiding their negative traits at first. This is why men suck-in their guts, brag, and show off... and why women wear makeup, do their hair, and shop all day for their clothes. If you were a woman, and you needed to figure out if a man was showing you his "true self", how would you do it? What if you had to know FOR SURE? As observation only way is to TEST on an ongoing basis, and to keep escalating the tests to be sure. Is this move are very effective? What do you think? But what if the man is just pretending? What if he only SEEMS to be this confident, funny, manly-man on the outside, but he's actually a push-over idiot that is insecure and makes up for it by acting like a tough guy? What would you do? Share you views about or your experience related.
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@waflay (2737)
• Nairobi, Kenya
3 Sep 11
The man only pretends when he is in presence of ladies, it is so rare to see a man pretending to be who he is not when he is in accompany of other men. I see this as the only chance to see a real man, how he relates with his friends and what make him outstanding. Some can be quiet type, making it hard to know exactly who they are and how they behave. The simple way to learn the secret behind their quietness is be a friend to them, but just learn in silence and avoid direct questions that might imply digging into their life, you risk pretense and they might hide their personality.
@visavis (5934)
• Philippines
4 Sep 11
I think pretending is one of the danger move from both side, why are they hiding something from their own fear to become downgrade or we or you are seeking fame. Even in the aspect of love some are pretending, some are hiding they are not showing natural the BIG QUESTION is WHY?
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