Why am i start lazy after party?
By myfb2009
@myfb2009 (8296)
Malaysia
September 3, 2011 11:15pm CST
Recently, my family and me had joined a party organized by my relatives and having great fun while over there with my relatives. We spend time eating and drinking, while chatting until the wee hours. Because this is the only time, where we are able to meet our far-away relatives, whom are very busy with their daily life activities. But the only problem is, i am becoming lazy to online after the party. Any idea how to restore back the charm to online like usual?
Now, i am trying to restore back my mood to visit Mylot like usual by replying to the comments that i received for my previous discussions. Hope by then, i can get back to my usual self,active in my online activities once again...
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16 responses
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
4 Sep 11
Me too. Usually after parties I feel lazy and don't wanna do anything at all. The worst thing about it is if it's an outing, I don't wanna go home. I usually would want to stay to wherever we went and have fun some more. To put it simply, I don't wanna go back to reality.
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
15 Sep 11
That was before. I realized it was wrong. In fact, it's wrong if you're getting too much on anything.
@Jlyn10 (11965)
• Malaysia
4 Sep 11
Well, you did the right thing, my dear, by starting this discussion. This is also how I got back my mood after losing it for 2 days.
You are probably feeling tired after the holidays, hence the laziness in you. It will pass soon as now you are still in a holiday mood. 
Just like what the others have advised me in my discussion ... just let it flow. I twill come back naturally. 
Just like what the others have advised me in my discussion ... just let it flow. I twill come back naturally. 
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
5 Sep 11
I'm not really sure. I do know that I work online daily and wish to make money. that is how I stay motivated with coming to Mylot and my other sites.
@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
4 Sep 11
Hi myfb!
I think you've got a hangover from your party. 
I'm like that, too whenever I did something really fun that really caught my attention, energy and time. Like for example, when our office participated in an exhibit, I had to be in our booth most of the time, I saw my friends there and it was a really great event. I enjoyed it too much that after that, I felt like doing nothing. I wanted to be in another exhibit again. It was like another life that I wanted to live again. But after a while, I got back to my life again and did the things I usually do. 
I'm like that, too whenever I did something really fun that really caught my attention, energy and time. Like for example, when our office participated in an exhibit, I had to be in our booth most of the time, I saw my friends there and it was a really great event. I enjoyed it too much that after that, I felt like doing nothing. I wanted to be in another exhibit again. It was like another life that I wanted to live again. But after a while, I got back to my life again and did the things I usually do. @myfb2009 (8296)
• Malaysia
5 Sep 11
Yup, seems like i am in the same situation like you. Indeed it is wonderful that we are able to experience same fun in the unusual situation. I and my hubby had enjoyed our self a lot that night, through discussion and interaction with my relatives. Even, i saw my son having great fun talking and play chasing around with his cousins...
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
6 Sep 11
Honestly, there is nothing wrong with taking some time off of the sites that you usually work on because you've had more important things going on in your real life. I know that is something that I've done from time to time. Then, after I've taken my little period of time off, I will come back to the sites that I work on and I will have a lot more energy for the sites and I'm far more productive than I would ordinarily be.
@myfb2009 (8296)
• Malaysia
19 Sep 11
Yes, when we are too busy with our offline matters, sometimes we are unable to come online. After resting for a few days, we are sure to be able to bounce back into our usual self and continue active in our preferred sites. Hope to see you more often in Mylot, Dora...
@toniganzon (72535)
• Philippines
7 Sep 11
Maybe because you had much fun with real people around you, you tend to get lazy here in mylot as you only get passive interaction with online friends.
I haven't been here for awhile and not sure when i should get back in full swing.
@myfb2009 (8296)
• Malaysia
19 Sep 11
Toni, when we are too busy and having fun with our real life fiends and family, we tends to feel lazy to come online. Only when we are fully rest and have the motivation to go online to earn, then we will be willing to continue our earning online mission. Hope you are fine over there...
@Amanda81587 (3042)
• United States
4 Sep 11
I do believe in another post you said you were out late at this gathering correct? So maybe the case if you not really feeling like being online and mylot may be because you are drained and still tired from your affair. I would suggest getting some mire rest and relaxing and I am sure you will be up and running again by tomorrow.
@ebuscat (5935)
• Philippines
4 Sep 11
For me you are not exited because the party is over and all you have to do is do washing plate,and sweep the floor.
@myfb2009 (8296)
• Malaysia
6 Sep 11
Indeed after the party is over, it is quite tiring as i need to help do the clean-up. But this party was organized in my relatives home, so i am only helping out while i was still there. My aunt asked me to go home after seeing my son wants to fall asleep. So off me and family going home, while my aunt and her daughters are still busy do the clean-up...
@pierrella (1087)
• Philippines
4 Sep 11
It is normal to feel tired after a party. Of course, in the party, you have to mingle with your relatives and friends. Sometimes having too much fun can be tiring too :) Especially when you stay awake at the wee hours of the morning. Mean you just need to rest.
Don't worry, you just have to take a good night sleep and eat the right food the following day so you'll have energy to go online and do your usual thing :)
@myfb2009 (8296)
• Malaysia
5 Sep 11
Yeah, indeed spending in the party seems quite tiring too, although most of the time only talking and eating. If i was following my son running here and there with this cousins, i am sure i will be more exhausted...It had been many days passed since the party, but i still seems a little lazy. Still trying my best to restore back my usual energy power...
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
5 Sep 11
Hi myfb 
Oh yes this happens to me too and I feel like a turtle the next day. lol
I think it is because we don't over do it daily and at parties we tend to over laugh, fun and mingle a lot so it takes a lot of energy from us for which we don't notice it until the next day.
I am sure you will get to your self after a day. Glad to hear though that the party was fun.
Oh yes this happens to me too and I feel like a turtle the next day. lol
I think it is because we don't over do it daily and at parties we tend to over laugh, fun and mingle a lot so it takes a lot of energy from us for which we don't notice it until the next day.
I am sure you will get to your self after a day. Glad to hear though that the party was fun.
@tutulch (86)
• Australia
4 Sep 11
We may start lazy after a party because during a party we burn lots of energy. Another thing is we get mental relaxation and it is human nature to stay relax it is really hard to come out form this right after the party.
@myfb2009 (8296)
• Malaysia
5 Sep 11
Sometimes i just don't understand that by talking and eating, we can also lose energy and relaxation. But, i see that my son is having more energy than me, although that night he is spending more energy since they are playing chasing each other during the party. Where else, me and other adults most of the time, just sitting and chatting and laughing...
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
4 Sep 11
might feel that way because you are fatigued and you already eat and noise music libation.
you just want a break to get back on the normal rhythm of life.
Of course maybe you are tired and so are you so lazy.
nice day!
Relax do things right.
@cream97 (29086)
• United States
17 Sep 11
Hi, myfb2009. This must have been some party that you have attended! If I were in your shoes, I would just try to relax some. Relaxing will ease your mind and make you feel at ease. Once you do this, then you will be able to figure out what you may want to do. I get like this sometimes, and I have to just take a break in sorting out what I want to do that I have a desire of doing.
@marguicha (223777)
• Chile
9 Sep 11
I love mylot, but now that I tire easily with the chemo, I can´t stay up until very late as I used to before. I am sure that going to a party is much the same, although in that case you will be your own self after a good night´s sleep.
I am answering friend´s posts a lot more than I did before. It is more rewarding and less tiring than trying to think up what to say
But don´t worry, you are very active as you are, friend!
But don´t worry, you are very active as you are, friend!