Have you ever looked at your ex and thought, 'what was I thinking?!"

yeah!! funny but true..i think most of us can relate with this.. but somehow it is good to have that as an experience..for us to have some funny memories in the past.. LOL! hahaha

yes I had this feeling. when I was with him I was trully blinded...but after some time after we broke up I tought about the whole story and I realised he didn't deserve anyhting..I was too young to realise this things back then and I'm sorry

yea, in my ex wife's case I have to wonder how I ever dated outside my SPECIES.

I don't have a clue what I saw in my ex, besides maybe an escape from my parents. I had a daughter and felt like I'd never find anyone who wanted to be with me. I also think it was the excitement of an older man being interested in me. He cheated on me for 6 of the 9 years we were together too, so he really was/is a loser and totally not my type. He also treats our children like strangers, I never imagined I would marry a man who cared so much about his mother, but so little about his wife and children. I'm thankful every day that he's my ex!!

yep, tell me about it. i have done that a million times. i just don't get what we think is so gorgeous about them at the time. i was blinded for 5 years. but if you also think about it, they'll be saying the same thing about us. don't you think?