Are you here who think there are wise and brilliant.?
By najibdina29
@najibdina29 (1309)
Indonesia
September 5, 2011 5:26am CST
As a woman who likes to discuss and hope are useful to others. I often get various problems that exist in my friends.
Sometimes this idea of ??producing a solution who can alleviate the problem of my friend.
This time I was in trust by a friend who asked for her solution of the problem. indeed, it is my sense of weight .. to provide a solution. This story is about a second wife.
she is a wife of a married husband. without the knowledge of the first wife. he proposed to her. whether it's a mistake or fate of the gods. I can not comment.
every day her heart restless. felt uneasy because she felt hurt her own people. She ever discussed with her husband. but her husband did not have a solution. as the husband of both he did not want to disappoint them. by talking to first wife, he was afraid of hurting his first wife. by silent no matter how long he thinks he will be so.
in this story I just took a deep breath, I think what solutions should I give to friends. if I say just leave her husband and divorced in reality she was an independent and earn a good reply. will not trouble with the divorce.
but .. one hand if I give it .. so my solution was to destroy the heart of a child who wants his father and mother together. These friends already have children in marriage.
Then I can only say "be patient", "maybe it's the way God has set for you. And pray may God have the best path for your household and your husband's household."
Only that I can say to her, but really my heart wants to help, so happiness is what can she get.
However, she was a good person. she was people who care about the others.
friends, can you provide opinions and solutions to this problem.
but remember, never try offenses of others. because every human being has errors and it is entitled to the opportunity.
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2 responses
@saparidiki64 (594)
• Indonesia
7 Sep 11
Because rice has become porridge, do not find fault of others, because it accomplishes nothing.
My advice if already revealed all of these problems, the first and second wives should be upright in accepting reality. Upright receive something with patience & care field, and give things that happen to themselves to GOD. The husband should also be responsible for what he did, if you can not be divorced.