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hey! thank you, You know it really makes me feel better now. With all your best advice I think I just really feel now that I have someone who is listening to me at all and thats you!!. Yes, maybe I'll do what you say and I promise that I will follow it. thank you so much!

Oh,Tiina,im really glad and happy that you feel better now,hope you feel like this all the time :) I wish also my advice work great for you and really if you wanted to tell about anything at any time,i will be here for you :) Best Wishes :)

welcome,Tiina :) as you said,it is not a big problem so lets not deal with it as a majorthing and just lets do the girl to girl talk ;).First of all,jealousy is not a bad thing and is even required in every relationship but WITHIN LIMITS and care for this word really because if you became very jealous you will ruin your relationship.it is ok to be feel jealous but dont make it a reason to start a fight with him when he talks to any girl or looks not intentionally to a girl!.You have to be wise about your jealousy and as for me not telling him that you are jealous is not that good thing.Your man will love to know what you care about him and that you cant stand a single look from a girl to him.He will appreciate this alot only if it is as i told you WITHIN LIMITS!.I mean dont be so jealous that you could even leave him if he talked to someone and STILL dont pretend to be not jealous at all!.You should have a balance i mean.Making a way to make him jealous sometimes brings back the adverse effects so better for you not to do this at least no many times because men can be very aggressive then and you will wish if you hadnt done this! Wish you all the best in your relationship and im sure your relationship will last forever because you do really love him ;)

well,finding a job is not that easy anyway.You should find out what skills you have and put them in the right action!.May be you can get also some qualifications like learning some graphics or translation or something that is highly demanded nowadays then istead of seeking the job,the job itself will seek you ;) Bes of Luck :)

first,take it easy,hafiz.everyone makes lots and lots of mistakes so you are not alone in the world.Second,you seem to be a little bit confused about making your own decisions.i would recommend for you,consulting other alot and alot before taking such decisions specially in the major ones!.consultation isnot a bad thing or a thing that lowers from your mind powers but it indicates that you are very wise in every step you make.By the time,consulting other will make you gain lots and lots of knowledge and experience and you will have a good and wise decision after all.One other thing,dont be sad for not taking other responsibilities.when you cant give them a good decision then leaving them alone is the best thing you can do (i do this my self).It is better than doing something wrong for them.When you face such things,dont say WHY ME! but say TRY ME! and remember WHAT DOESNT KILL YOU MAKES YOU STRONGER!.As for your friends and family who blame you all the time,well...look for the bright side of the this..they are at least telling you that you are wrong and that you got to stop your behaviour..so it is not that bad!..Try to ask them to give you advices instead of blamming you only :) Best of luck hafiz and if you have any other porblems,you will find good friends here for you :)

actually,sydney we all have this problem (getting our selves into troubles) because it is our choice after all and believe me the whole reason of getting into troubles is us somehow.You got to find how you get troubles and try to avoid what you do.you can even ask for the opinions of the people around you to tell you what is the wrong thing you made because sometimes we cant see our fault but the people around us can see ,so try to figure out the wrong think and work on fixing it and this will come step by step so dont worry ,your problem wont last forever anyway and remember every problem you have earns you EXPERIENCE! as for me i have many problems for sure but the major one is that i dont forget easily so i can live for a long time on a bad memory from the past and you dont know how much this is annoying!