is he not into me?

well i think he is just the kind of person that does not like to talk too much.. but then he is just into you as much as you think he is. justdo not push it too much you might be pushing him away as well. you just need to steadily go out with him, chat with him, and when he is comfortable he will open up more to you, i guess.

ah i'm sorry for my comment eh... but here it is... for me you said that you are dating him 3 mos... but it's in your heart.. you should follow that... but literally find his weakness and strength and it's been a 3 mos.... you know a lot to each other... find those what we call "SOMETHING IN COMMON" thing... and if you find many of those...and you want him by your side.. and you feel so in love with him..that's no doubt it's "love"... And for the "whatever you want" factor i think the guy want's you to tell him what you really want because he did not know what you want yet...even it's 3 mos... hmmmm..try what the guy wants if your going out = ) you'll both see if it's fun too... God Bless and more power to you = ) Help me back to my problem okay = ) thanks...

Maybe he is just too bashful about expressing his feelings on you in public. I can sense that he did love you because he respects you. Maybe he is just waiting also for the right time. He is not that impulsive I think that's why. So just respect him also. If you feel happy in his company why not continue there is nothing wrong with it. As long as you know your limitations.

Well, I don't think there is any problem with your friend. You have to give it time, he has to fight his shyness is all. The only thing you have to do is encourage him as much as possible.