How will you know its Love? / myLot

Philippines

September 7, 2011 2:31am CST

Are you In love? Have you ever been In LOve? Before you met the guy/ lady you are with now, or the one you've been wishing to be with you, How do you know that you're in LOVE with them? And How sure? Even if you are married, How did you became sure that it's the right person for you? How will you know if it's love? How will you compare it with a false Love... Our Hearts are indeed deceiving all the time...We always thought what we felt was the right thing but sometimes we were just so deceived by those feelings and fall and be in pain in the end.. My friends "relationships" were all crashing, they always say its the wrong one... How will you know if its LOVE passing by? What if Its not? Their other reasons that's why they separate was I've fallen inlove with the other person... How will you know if you have chosen the right or wrong person... How will you know and How can you be so sure if its LOVE, we might always end up crying in the end if we are always been deceived by our hearts...

10 responses

GemmaR

@GemmaR (8517)

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8 Sep 11

When I was growing up, I would ask my Mum this question a lot, and she would always reply that when I was in love with a man, I wouldn't have to actually ask anyone whether I was in love with him or not because I would just know that I was without even having to ask for confirmation of that fact. She was right, and I fell in love for the first time when I was 18. I am still with that same person now, and I have never had to ask anyone what love means because I just know that my feelings were as strong for him when we first met as they are today, and I know that it will never change.

writersolutions

@writersolutions (33)

• India

8 Sep 11

Love is one beautiful feeling and like to enjoy it personally. Just love eachother madly and go ahead in life.

love

courtknee525

@courtknee525 (3742)

• United States

8 Sep 11

The only person I love and ever will love is my first and current boyfriend. He is completely different from most guys our age and he's one in a million. We started off as friends and then I could tell he really liked me. Our friendship grew and then I just fell in love. I know that it's real because he's always on my mind, I always want to spend time with him, I never want to do anything to hurt him or jeopardize our relationship, even when I'm extremely mad at him I can't help but love him, and I can see us being together for the rest of our lives. He truly makes my life complete and I couldn't imagine life without him. I think when you meet that one special person, your heart just knows. Ever since I met my boyfriend I just had this really good feeling and that's how I knew.

naseemkum

@naseemkum (1803)

• India

8 Sep 11

Still i didnt feel maturity love in my life. I always experience love as infectuation with some girls. I never mind about those girls because i didnt try for it or cry for it seriously. I know its a matter of pain and sometimes a matter of gain. I dont had ability to accept big matter of pain with my mind.

naseemkum

@naseemkum (1803)

• India

8 Sep 11

amateur love

elprinsesa

@elprinsesa (16)

• Philippines

7 Sep 11

You'll know when you're inlove when everything is wonderful and unstressful for you. You don't why but you just love or like the way she/he is. You're inlove with that person when you can't help yourself but spend your time with her/him. You won't expect from him/her but you're giving all your best for him/her. Always remember in love everything is fair. You won't keep on questioning about your relationship when you're really sure with that guy/girl or really inlove with that guy/girl. Trust your feelings. You'll know if your partner is not telling the truth. Don't forget to be smart sometimes or you'll end up of hurting yourself. You'll know it's love when you'll have no worries and keep on spending your time with her/him. Just let your heart make the move. Let your heart speaks and your partner will surely notice that. And you'll also notice if the person also loves or likes you.

love

flowerfest08

@flowerfest08 (1677)

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7 Sep 11

hi:) I don't have a boyfriend right now, but I know what love is because I already had a two past relationships. actually you really never can tell if that person is the right one for you, even if you're already married you still can't tell because everything might change. but what important is along the way that certain love can gives you happiness and that feeling that you're complete.Love topic is really tricky. no right or wrong answer, there's always have some questions to follow in every answer.

Jessicabowi

@Jessicabowi (16)

• United States

7 Sep 11

You know its love; When you don't want, to be with anybody else. when your heart beat fast, when they coming in the room. Butterflies in the tummy, So true!!!

in love

jeztrose

@jeztrose (1405)

• Philippines

7 Sep 11

yes.. sometimes love is decieving..but you know for me i knew that he is the one.. when i stopped looking for another,because i feel already contented having him,i can be myself whenever we are together,i am not shy to show what i really feel..and he accepts me for what i am..i feel more comfortable with him...it is also important that you must have mutual feelings.. to have your relationship go fonder..and that's LOVE is all about..

@yfchin83 (127)

• Malaysia

7 Sep 11

*Chuckle* Yes, I'm in love. For me, love is when both go through together the obstacles in life yet remain attached. You feel comfortable with him and he accepts you for what you are, never wanting to change a single thing in you. Love is about tolerance, giving and receiving without being calculative on what you have given out is more than what you are receiving. Love is when you misses him dearly when is not by your side :) Most of the time, women especially uses their heart in feeling love. That is when it hurts deeply. There is no right or wrong in love. It is up to both of you to make it happen! If the relationship doesn't work, leave early before u get hurt further!