Having more time being a single

I am still single and for me its really a tough responsibility parents need to carry out in raising their children. the need to pay an attention to them and always need to take a good care of them.. Of course you will have more time being single than married but that is the best thing parents do that single people can't.(^^)

I don't have much time to do posting or something else online,either.Though usually either my wife or I share the only computer,but I have to work on weekdays and I have to labour in my orange grove after work and at weekends,actually I really don't get online too much even if my son's not a child,hehe.

Personally now looking back on things, there is no way I would want to go back to being Single. I enjoy married life too much. I do not have kids, and never was able to have any, but with all the Health issues I have had to endure over the yrs. having a husband who is there standing by me makes it all worth while. I guess if I was younger I would miss my Single life, but with all the diseases, etc. out there these days, I do not miss it at all.

Taking care of kids, especially small ones and doing housework really time consuming. So of course being a single means you got more free time for yourself. But organize one's own family and having one's own kids can give you great pleasures, which can't be beat by anything else. And you know, babies are so cute and as time goes on, they will grow up, and one day, you don't need to spend too much time and energy to take care of them, maybe at that time, you will missing the busy time of the past.

I seldom have this problem because I told my kids that they should have their own jobs to own and they must be the same as their daddy and mommy. ha! ha! Normally, they will watch television, VCD or DVD and play computer games. After I finished my job, I shall go out with them for swimming during the evening, dinner or shopping. All of us must have our own jobs when we are busy.

i used to think being single was better for me that way i never felt tied down i could go where i wanted and do what i wanted and not have to answer to anyone and not to mention i had a hard time staying faithful to any boyfriend but then i started dating this man who was much older than i it was sopposed to be just a meaningless fling but we fellin love soemtimes it feels like were married life gets so crazy sometimes we get so caught up in work and taking care of the kids and farm the way we patch thinks up is get a babysitter for the kids take off work and go out on a date like we did when we first started dating it makes us feel like young teenagers

Fortunately, I don't have such a trouble because I'm still single. But I can imagine what it is like for a married mom to work at home. Seeing my elder sisters being surrounded by their kids all day, I just feel sympathetic for her. Perhaps it's true that women have to sacrifice something when they have family and kids. Anyway, wish you'll deal with it properly.

Hello yspmyl, I understand your feelings…. I become mad at times in between the two kids, their quarrel, their studies, kitchen work, office works etc…. but I don’t think remain single is the option to avoid all these… we have to experience all these on its own time… when in a peaceful mood I think… the kids are growing fast and how long I will face their quarrels and naughtiness… I may miss the same very soon… so let us enjoy now at least some time.

Hi! Thanks for starting this discussion, I think we are on the same situation. I am a single mom and I have to provide for my daughter alone. I am working a real time job 9 to 6 in a day and after that I am doing my online stuff to add my income. During Saturday and Sunday, I am the one to take care of my baby but I still have to do my freelance job in order to earn continuously. However, since my baby is still a toddler, they always wanted to play and should be monitored most of the time. Sometimes, I am thinking what if I dont have a child? Maybe I am not obligated to work and work, maybe If im doing something, I can do it without disturbed. But I dont have any regret, I am happy with my child. I am no longer planning to have a second child and getting married.

Well, at this moment I'm still single. I'm very much enjoying being single. But sometimes I have a feeling of wanting to get married and have children to stop my dating behavior. :P I usually remain single in able to do all the things I wanted and entertain all the suitors and enjoy the way the suits me. I also remain single to avoid jealousy and use it as a reason to other guys when I'm enjoying my moment with the other guy. Being single is fun. I can enjoy my life whoever who's with me without worrying someone might be worrying what is happening to me. But when the time getting into a relationship comes. I think it's time for me to enjoy next chapter of my life and work on it to make our relationship much stronger. We all have the right to decide what to do in our life. you're single because you want to. You're married because you wanted too. Enjoy every moment in your life. It's a matter of time management. If you have kids enjoy the moment being their mom. sooner or later they'll grow and need to go out to find their place. It is a matter of time management with the right people in the right time.