someone told you that your partner is cheating on you

I guess it depends on how long and how well you know this person who is giving you the information. And even if this is the case you need to do a little detective work on your own and find out for yourself if your partner is truly cheating on you or not. If you straight out and ask him he might just lie about it.

I would ask them where is the proof. I wouldn't believe them right off the back nor would I accuse them of lying. I would ask around and see if anyone else knew of something that was happening. I would ask my boyfriend about it. If I felt like he was lying, I would continue to snoop around. I have a pretty good intuition so if I think my boyfriend is cheating and then someone tells me he is, that's all the reassurance I need. Don't get me wrong, I'm not going to just dump him right then and there but I will make sure he suffers before I do break up with him. Lol, yes I am evil.

well yes someone has told me that my bf cheated onme, and she has said so many other things, i think only about 5% was true of all those. i asked my partner about this, and well he told me and admitted to doing something wrong. the thing is that i did no speculate more and only asked him once and for all.

That is not enough fact to start suspecting my partner because I already know what she can do and what she can't do so,I will just say thank you to the informant and leave.Until more than two people tells me the same thing,I will not suspect her but if two,three people tells me the same thing then,I will begin to carry out my own investigation on the matter because some people might just want to use such information to destabilize someones marriage.

Hi, there! I believe that believing someone regarding this painful case depends on how well you know the person who told you that your partner is cheating on you. But of course, when this will happen to me, I would investigate my partner myself and see for myself if the information that someone gave me was true.

hi:) No I will not, perhaps I would listen to her/him but I want to prove it myself than trust someone whose just saying that my partner was cheating, but if s/he could provide me an evidence perhaps I will consider and confront my boyfriend about it. G'day friend!

Since i have been cheated on before i would do my research first and find out who the girl might be through his friends or something like that. I have had friends tell me that my ex was cheating on me but i got through it and found out myself the real answer. It was not fun and i couldnt believe it that he really was doing it and it hurts really bad but you have to investigate yourself and get your detective on and just have your friends help you or his friends help you as well with out him knowing what you are doing. Keep it cool with him but dont trust anything he says if you suspect him cheating but play it cool with him till you catch him in the act.