How content are you?...
By vivamir
@vivamir (671)
September 7, 2011 6:44pm CST
Hey fellow MYLOTTERS..
A random post..
Yet Id like to ask what your thoughts are on life.. I mean right now.. this exact moment, how happy are you?..
I am talking to my best friend on email..and well he is abit down in the dumps with the fact that his Mum keeps stressing him about finances.. no offence but why spend more money than what you have got?.. You wouldnt have this issue then.. its like she is a greedy moose- and this puts soooo much strain on my friend.. I just dont understand it..
Anyway back to the post.. How do you feel? Are you satisfied with your current life situation, and what do you think could be done so that you could better it?..
Thanks..(",)
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11 responses
@changjiangzhibin89 (16758)
• China
8 Sep 11
I am an old man and lead free and easy life now,so if I differ with you on some matters,please take me as you find me.Imho,not that your friend's Mum is a greedy moose,but that she is a person who has had the life experience.She knows what hardship life is.But then,perhaps your friend is a person that stretches money to keep whthin a budget at other times except this time.
@changjiangzhibin89 (16758)
• China
14 Sep 11
I beg your pardon,if the" bang on the mark "means "to the point".In addition,what the (",) means?
@revellanotvanella (4033)
• United States
8 Sep 11
I'm feeling pretty good but there is that nagging feeling of there being much ahead, I can't wait but at same time I'm anxious it may mean having to cut old ties, very different lifestyle changes (possibly moving out of country), etc , I've made leaps forward from just this small town girl w head in clouds but thinking back it seems so minute to how much I have to learn in life. Sometimes I want to hurry it up lol.
@revellanotvanella (4033)
• United States
8 Sep 11
Oh no, I hear you cowgirl money does open up opportunities there's nothing wrong w wanting that.
@vivamir (671)
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13 Sep 11
Hi revellanotvanella..
Im glad to read that you are feeling good with life at the moment..and I understand that your anxious about the future and especially the decisions that youll be making.. I wish you all the best with your move out of the country *if you do so*..as this will open many opportunities for your future success..
Theres nothing wrong with being career minded, as I am the same myself.. just the thought of my success makes me feel all bubbly inside, but still I have many hurdles to jump before getting there..
I wish you all the luck in the world my friend.. (",)
@roger_nautilus (335)
• Philippines
8 Sep 11
Right now... I'm just browsing the net.. I can't say that I'm happy or sad... It's just the usual feeling that I have... But I can say that I feel bored recently, that's the reason I'm surfing the net right now... to kill boredom.
@sanjay91422 (2725)
• India
8 Sep 11
I think I am quite satisfied with your my current situation because I am doing this new job where I am having really some new experiences and some new learning for me too.
All I wish now is to spend my time enjoying the new experiences and also doing good for the others.
@vivamir (671)
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13 Sep 11
Hi sanjay91422..
Thanks for your response..
I think it is great that you are experiencing new things in this job you have, makes you want to get up and go to work in the morning.. I wish you all the luck in the world with your success and hope that everything you experience contributes to your progression..
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@sjvg1976 (41281)
• Delhi, India
8 Sep 11
Hello Vivamir,
I am satisfied with the life but i feel i am a bit wrong when i say that i am fully satisfied because by saying this i have closed doors for the betterment. Once a person is dissatisfied he will surely strive to get better.
I think your friend's mother is not greedy she wants her son to do some better in his life.May be her way is wrong but the intention is right.
@vivamir (671)
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13 Sep 11
Hi sjvg1976..
I agree when you say that when a 'person is dissatisfied he will surely strive to get better'..
I dont believe her intention is right, as with no finances, how does my friend succeed?. He is 25 and cannot afford to take his driving lessons, this is just one example..
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@Bluedoll (16773)
• Canada
8 Sep 11
Finances is a big problem for a lot of people these days so stressing over it should be positive I think. Everyone needs to readjust and change is not always easy. To be content I think is important. For me it depends on the day and the moment I am in. I can be both content and on the edge and try to find some balance. Yes, it can always be better so I want to achieve that but stay out of the dumps as much as possible because I have found that place is not very productive.
@vivamir (671)
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13 Sep 11
Hi Bluedoll..
Thanks for your response..
I agree that finances do play a huge stress in peoples life nowadays.. and this plays a huge motivation for some.. *or so it should*
I try not to let certain life situations bring me down, but instead turn it into something positive to work with..and all in all, in the end we can end up bringing ourselves up rather than down.. but only dependent on the way we treat the scenario..
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
8 Sep 11
I am thankful for my life the way it is. I'm sure alot of people would not be satified if theirs was like mine but some people are never satisfied. Your friend's mother should be ashamed of herself for doing him that way.She should have done better herself w/managing what she had a long time ago & not be depending on him for money to start with.
@vivamir (671)
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13 Sep 11
Hi ANTIQUELADY..
Its nice to read that you are content with the way your life has turned out- even though you say that others may not be.. which makes me think that you may not have had such an easy ride..
I agree with your comment in regards to my friend.. I have said the same myself.. as this is the MUM... In my opinion it shoudl be the fact that she pushes my friend to do better but instead through taking a majority of his income- wont allow him to progress as fast as he could..
Thanks for your response..
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@RitterSport (2451)
• Lippstadt, Germany
18 Sep 11
hi dear viamir, I know you are battling right now with your own situations, from the posts I read from you. So I am a little hesitant right here answering this interesting discussion.
After a really long term tricky situation in my life has cleared up some months ago I am really really content. I have always been a bit of a doom and gloom person in these almost 50 years I am on that planet now but right now with that situation having cleared up I can say I enjoy life for the first time. Each day is like a gift box wrapped in nice paper with a big bow on it so its fun to open the gift box called, another day, and see what is inside.
There are still some obstacles coming along here and there but I can say I am a very happy and content person.
@flowerfest08 (1677)
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8 Sep 11
hi:)
I am not that content in my financial status right now, but in general I'm pretty much content,well of course having some small problems are just fine.About your friend, perhaps she needs to explain to her mom that she needs to spend wisely because that's all she can give to her, especially now it's hard to earn money, and if you earned it's not wise to spend it all because you still need to save for emergency. I hope her mother will understand that.
G'day friend!
@vivamir (671)
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13 Sep 11
Hi flowerfest08..
Thanks for your response..
I am glad to hear that your quite content.. and I hope that you are able to resolve the 'small' problems, as I have found it is these little things can become bigger problems if they are left to brew..(",)
Thank you for your advice regarding my friend, I shall definitely tell him..
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@achiclikeme (4)
• United States
8 Sep 11
I am so not happy with my situation at this current moment. Sometimes I just wish I can run away but I know I have my 2 beautiful kids to take care of. So instead I just keep a positive attitude and convince myself that everything will be alright.
@vivamir (671)
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8 Sep 11
Hi achicklikeme..
Thankyou for your response..
Aww.. you have 2 children like you said, which is a blessing in itself.. I just hope you are able to work out your difficulties.. as Im sure it is not easy as it is..
However, I do think that by keeping a positive attitude is awesome, dont get me wrong, but just hoping things will get better may not be so good.. I am sure you will find a pro active way in order to ensure that you and your two blessings live a happy life..
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@cowgirl03051979 (918)
• United States
8 Sep 11
well i dont mean to vent or complain or anything but since you asked...i am not happy with my life right now. thats why im on this site working my butt off every single day trying to make a better life for me and my family. dont get me wrong i know money will not be what makes my life content but i know it takes money to get where i want to go. im still young so i have time to work and make things better. but i am just not a very patient person
@vivamir (671)
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13 Sep 11
Hi cowgirl03051979..
Thanks for your response..
Just to start my response.. Id like to say that your not complaining LOL..
I appreciate and admire that you are working your butt off in some manner to support your family.. and I understand when you say that money wont make your life happier but in turn will make things easier and less stressful- believe me I have experienced this in the past few months..
I wish you all the best with your future success and I hope to read that things have gotten much better for you.. please do let us know of your progression my friend..
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