how to get confidence for a girl?
By sunflower17
@sunflower17 (18)
China
September 8, 2011 2:07am CST
i'm beatuful(people all says),but i'm not good at talking and make frends.sometime i think they don't want to make frends with me because my poor talking.when i see fashion girls i fell shamed.even though i know i'm great,but i do care about others' opinion.lack of confidence bothers me,how can i get confidence,tell me,my frends!
1 response
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
8 Sep 11
If you would really believe you are beautiful and great you would use that instead of telling yourself people don't like you because of the way you talk. If you have enough self esteem you don't care about what others say or what you wear.
There are many of people who are not fashioned and who do make other people turn their head if they walk by.
There are people who can catch other people their attention by just appearing or smiling or the way they look at someone.
This means you need personality, you have to be someone, to be you. Walk straight up. Look people in the eyes, smile at them, be friendly. Comb your hair and wear clean clothes. This all is more worth as the way you talk or the price of the clothes you wear.
Just start practising this, each day a bit more. Show you have manners and don't get focused at only a certain group of people. And most of all: believe in yourself since you are good the way you are. And if it is really bother you the way you speak, go find someone who will teach you. Start reading books and magazines, listen to English radio/tv and repeat sentences.
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
8 Sep 11
I agree with you wakeupKitty! If she believes that she's beautiful, then it's strong enough to make her confident and gain friends.
Just she always have a smile for everybody and she is sure to attract a lot of friends.
She can polish her English, if that's what deter her from being friends with others, thru what you have mentioned. Or even thru the internet, by looking at pronunciations.
Or maybe she can just be with friends who speaks the same language as she.
Most of all, she should be genuinely friendly.
@sunflower17 (18)
• China
9 Sep 11
thanks for your suggestions,i will learn to how to communicate with people,and the most important is to be myself.