Love your In-laws...yes, you should and must :p

dear sids Sorry to hear about your situation my dear brother. My story is of reverse- it is my parents who disowned me when I eloped with my ex-hus. I was not allowed to visit my home, no communication and totally banned to meet and talked with my siblings. This goes for 3 years I guess. I accepted my punishment...and family will always be a family, everything is fine with me and my relationship with them. I hope and I wish you all the best too my dear brother. have a great weekend ahead

Thanks for your sweet wishes dear sjvg ... I wished things were smooth and it was easy to find things going our way

Hello sids, Hope your in laws will soon forget the past and accept you as your son in law.

you have to sweetheart... then...do not lived with them

Okay, lets do this. I'll pretend i like them. But.... There is no way in hell i would live with them.

that make sense sweetheart

hello neil, Oh,sorry to hear about this my dear brother. I know how hard it is when there is no mom around... Have a good day dear brother and hugs to the little bully sis, jaiho®

Thank you for understanding amiga...You are really a friend... Happy mylot minute :-)

It's fine my dear and I know few cases like yours. Actually much worst than your situation. And sometimes I even gave naughty advice when that friend ask me what to do have a great weekend amiga

dear amiga, Uh uh, I do understand what you mean dear. Your case is another case, so,I won't blame you. I know few cases same like yours and yes, ignoring is the best way. have a great weekend and thanks for coming every now and then jaiho®

hello thanks, Nice to see your photo I want to understand every reason that is why I posted this topic. I want to read others opinion. I am not yet a mother- in law (pls..i felt too young to be one -hahaha) Seeing my mom, the way she treats my brother and sisters in law evenly, loving them as her own child..makes me wonder why other mother in laws looks like monster and rivals to their sons/daughter in law. I know we differ in every ways and aspects...that I want to understand. thanks for your response and have a good day jaiho®

I am not sure how to deal with in-laws once I become one (a mother in law) But I am observing how my mom treated her son/daughter in laws. My mother in law is a good person as well... I wish to be like them

Hi Jai, You uploaded a nice photo and I noticed that you also have the habit of changing it periodically. With regard to our topic, I think people already have a predetermined mind-set upon the in-laws and this is the reason why in most cases it happens in such a way. The pre-concept is the main culprit here to go things more worse. If anyone, who can approach with a nice attitude and show low towards the in-laws, they will gradually understand who we are and even if they are prepared to behave devilish, they change to normal. I think all are a kind of psychological process only and as long as you said you are not a mother-in-law, for you there is no issue. But even now you can think if in any chance once you become a mother-in-law, get prepared to be a 'good one' and I am sure that you will get back a best deal with whom you are in contact with. Thanks for your nice words. Best regards, Thank-s

dear sis, Thanks for sharing your views. I really create this topic to see and read other's opinion about in-laws. I know you respect and love your in-laws I read from your previous topics. have a good day jaiho®

Hi surekharathiji Well, I am not sure about the entire Indian men, but I am one for sure who believes that my wife has been a mom to me. I cannot forget the days when I was completely bed-ridden and she was the only one who was around. She did the work - professional and personal - both and also cared for me.

Hello my dear friend sid I am also this type of women caring and loving of my MIL and FIL and their family.. and my husband is my heart for me... she is in not feeling well since 3 days only on bed and I am doing all household chores no maid servant in my house work with giving fruits to her, food to her everything because I know after marriage she is my mother. You will read my discussion tommorron not post today because now so much tired and going for sleeping gnt sd..

hello cream, It should be "no competition" but it happens with few relationship. Sometimes it even create trouble between in-laws esp with daughter in laws. We cannot blame mothers, mothers always wants the best for their son/daughter. Have a great weekend ahead dear jaiho®

hello ANTIQUELADY, Thanks for the appreciation and I really wonder why mother in law and their son/daughter in law have difficulty when it comes to relationship. I want to look every angle, and end to this conclusion. I believe that a mother in-law is none other like our mothers as well. have a great weekend jaiho®

dear sis, That's what I understand dear...mother in law should be treated like our own mother. But if a mother in law cannot accept their son/daughter in law, then the problem will surely arise. Good to hear that you are having a good relationship with your in-laws. have a great weekend dear sis. sis, jaiho®

dear simplyD, Wow, you're great. I won't blame you for doing so, I know you have good reason why you have done such thing. And it turns out to be good and you were able to win your mother in law I am sure your MIL realized her mistake and she's so kind to admit it anyway. have a great weekend jaiho®

hello sjvg, Great, you are lucky to have a good in-laws then. Some in-laws are not as good as what you have. Some in-laws treat their son/daughter in laws badly and that arises the problem and trouble in between. have a great weekend jaiho®

hello mommntam, I know about this, I am also in good terms with my in-laws even after separation. And it's a great consolation... have a good day jaiho®