Are you agree with me? In mylot 90% persons are married and 10% are unmarried
By smilywomen
@surekharathi (14146)
India
September 8, 2011 8:46am CST
This observation is based on my funny discussion grrrr grrrrrr voice while sleeping that is called snoring. Everyone telling in that discussion my husband has such habit, my wife has such habit, we both have no such habit...etc..
I think married persons can start the more topic because they have the lots of topic than unmarried persons like on MIL, child, spouse, love..etc. But unmarried people think ohhh how can start topic then start on girlfriend or boyfriend.. haha.... just joking. Who is unmarried waiting ohhh if I will get married immediately then I can also start topic more like mywife also snoring, she takes more water while bathing, she has not a habit to do the study in bathroom like me haa.....
So tell my fellow mylotters its true or my observations is wrong...Welcome here new observation of your side..
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20 responses
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
8 Sep 11
Hello my dear friend!
Hmm not sure about percentages here on myLot as I have never given it a thought. I think it is at times depending on the topic, who can share their views and luck of timing at times.
Although I am not married, I can relate to a lot of your topics because I do live with my boyfriend. Based on relationship topics I think anyone who has been in one whether married or not can give responses because they have lived it. This is hard, my friend to answer as not sure how to come up with percentages.
I guess the best way for me to answer is that I have in the past started several discussions about children and did get 80 - 100 responses and not all of the members had children, but they were able to respond because of the way life is and experiences they had with others.
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
8 Sep 11
I don't believe it goes against the rules because it is merely your opinion and I do not see where it can be breaking the guidelines.
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@surekharathi (14146)
• India
8 Sep 11
yes my dear friend you are right we cant give our percentage view only on discussion but I personally know lots of persons are married and know unmarried persons also so I start this discussion I give example just for formality... tell me this discussion is against rule or no problem..
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
8 Sep 11
Hhahha thanks my friend to tell this but really I am not observe only from that discussion but also observed on other discussion also...like fan is necessary while sleeping.., my husband has a girl friend etc...
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
12 Sep 11
smart girl you are zandi for looking at that point of surekharathi.
and surekharathi, you too are very smart to find it out with your discussion.
@a_year_older (636)
• Malaysia
8 Sep 11
Hmm. I don't know for sure whether you are right. There are a lot of people on mylot after all. It could be that most of the people who replied to your discussion just happened to already be in a relationship. Maybe those who are married could relate more to your situation.
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@a_year_older (636)
• Malaysia
8 Sep 11
I haven't really joined discussions on relationships nor have I started any discussions about them so I can't really say.
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@surekharathi (14146)
• India
8 Sep 11
thanks frien a_year_older yes friend I know response according it discussion and here not this issue I want to say only the married persons are more than unmarried persons and you observed this or not... thanks to join my discussion..
@siliguri (4241)
• India
9 Sep 11
You mean to say that 90% persons are in danger zone(married) and 10% are in safer zone(single/unmarried) isn't ? thank god that i'm in safer zone...
Have done the survey ?
while giving the response of this discussion there are 234250 population of mylot and according to your observation 234250*90% = 210825 are in danger zone and remaining 23425 are in safer zone WOW!!! by seeing this figure you don't think the people who are in safer zone is quite low compare to the persons are in danger zone if this observation is true, than i think mylot itself is a danger zone.
To know your observation is right or wrong we have to ask each and everyone whether they are married or unmarried through PM or there is an another options post a discussion and content of it related to asking about their marriage status and there is compulsion to everyone to give the response on that discussion.
Going to your next point yeah i agree that danger zone persons have many thought in their mind might be after marriage they deal with various things, many new people and have huge responsibility on them as a result many rumors or thoughts running into their mind and they have get the best place(i.e mylot) to express it.
Talking about the safer zone persons they basically spend their more time to hangout to their friends. They like to have time outside only rather then engrossed themselves in mylot. They know that after marriage they have to spend their time in mylot as there will be curtailment in their freedom then mylot will become best friend.
This is my observation hope everyone like it specially you
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@fantabulus (4000)
• India
9 Sep 11
woooo siliguri what a nice response I put my reward already on your discussion now we will see what will do the surekha... I think you will get best response award with plus sign.. hahah... mylot is in danger zone.. using word like TV channel safe zone and danger zone..
Siliguri you are senior member than me so please I start here a discussion I think the people will take in wrong pleas read it and tell this is good or not do you like to bath in emergency with any family members..hurry up otherwise people will send wrong responses on it...but I think that is only funny way and fact of in our house...
@sjvg1976 (41281)
• Delhi, India
8 Sep 11
Hello Surekha,
I don't agree to your point as unmarried people also have many topics to start with as they have more friends than us the married people and they have much time to devote with their friends in compared to married people in my opinion.So you can't say that they get lesser ideas.The difference is we married people have MIL,FIL,wife/husband etc and they have friends, friends & friends.
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@surekharathi (14146)
• India
8 Sep 11
ohhh my dear friend here main point is not this the unmarried person cant start the discussion the main point is her in mylot most of the people are married and do you married person faces more problems than unmarried..like if we are doing job in the office and there only men is more than women so I telling this here same.. not other issue...
@Humanicon (328)
• India
10 Sep 11
I fall in the category of unmarried mylotters. I have observed that there are more married here in mylot.
I don't approve with you a little bit. Unmarried people can also start more discussion than the married people. The thing that is required here is talent and a sharp mind. Unmarried people can start discussion even more than married people. Just like some of these :
1)Today woke up late and since i don't have spouse i had to go to office with empty stomach.
2)No body woke me up in the morning and i had to go office late.
3)I did not find my tie or i kept my tie some where and forgot.
4)My cloths were unwashed so i had to put on unwashed cloths or my cloths were not ironed.
And many more like bachelor life discussion can be started by them.
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@surekharathi (14146)
• India
11 Sep 11
Ohhh friend you are right really unmarried person are also face lots of problem but I am not telling this the main point is most of the persons are married and less are unmarried
@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
12 Sep 11
It is difficult to predict or make an assumption that 90% of the lotters are married. It could be 70-30 or 65-35 in favor of married lotters. I agree with you that married lotters could start more discussions because they get to experience many things, which unmarried lotters just can not face in their lives.
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
8 Sep 11
Since I have been here at myLot, I have noticed that there are many married couples that are on myLot. I am one of them! I know that I have so much to contribute because of the role that I play in my outside myLot life. I also believe that many people have so much to discuss with others, because they have experienced so many different situations in life. Many others can also relate well to another person because they have been through similar situations too. So, it can go either way. There are so many discussions that one can respond to, that we can't help but not to have anything interesting and creative to discuss or comment on.
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@surekharathi (14146)
• India
8 Sep 11
yes friend I also notice that yes friend after marriage we face lots of bad situations so we can start the topic more...thanks ..
@preethaanju (3000)
• India
8 Sep 11
anybody can start a topic on mylot. its not necessary that one must be married.Of course after marriage our problems and experiences increase. So obviously we will have more topics to discuss about. But personally i think there must be more unmarried men/women on mylot than married.this observation is because young people are more enthusiastic and looking for ways to make a pocket money,while oder people will earn the conventional way
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@surekharathi (14146)
• India
8 Sep 11
Ohh friend I am not telling only married persons can start the topic please read the discussion.. I am telling only the percentage of peoples and the unmarried person think how can start the topic on wife, child etc. I know newest or unmarried person's thinking capability is more than us..
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
8 Sep 11
this discussion should be in the "relationship, love or marriage" interest
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
8 Sep 11
friend this discussion about mylot married and unmarred persons so I have choose this cetegory...
@eurekafemme (5877)
• Philippines
8 Sep 11
What an observation you have got in there, my dear.
But I can not fully agree with you that majority of the people here is married, you could be right or you could also be wrong.
Married people have lots of topics to post because they have a lot of domestic concerns (I guess?)to vent out that they normally would not in person with either with their spouses or other relatives.
Unmarried people can have varieties and can also equate the number of topics depending on the interest really , my dear. Married persons' topics are only more serious than those of the unmarried ones.
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
9 Sep 11
I can't even agree that married people have more serious problems than single people. What about single parents, handicapped people, teen moms, homeless people, people with mental illness, etc etc. And then there are the widowed and divorced who are single but have been married. If one were to start a discussion about going through a divorce then would that mean that 90% of the people here are divorced because really probably most that would respond would only be those that have been through it
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
8 Sep 11
thanks to partially agree I know unmarried persons can also start lots of topics but you are right marrieds topics are some time serious than unmarried persons...
@anil02 (24688)
• India
9 Sep 11
Hello, I don't think about this. Your observation may be right one. My lot is not an entertainment site. It is discussion site. Unmarried means a young one. More over young person don't like any serious thing like my lot. Married person are experience one so they have to much to speak. Your are right.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
11 Sep 11
Wow! nice photo and friend I think you are elder than me but can I say only friend than sir or uncle...because you not provide your age....this is your real photo...nice smile...
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@ravisivan (14079)
• India
9 Sep 11
surekha: interesting. Married people -- means age is more- experience is more - so we have more opportunities for starting discussions.
Normally unmarried people - age may be less, so experience also probably less and hence they cannot post more. However we have thousands of youngsters who are more intelligent than elderly people like me. Yes. my nephew's son of 2 years age knows how to operate ipad, TV, telephone like that.
Normally 90/10 it is ok.
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@fantabulus (4000)
• India
9 Sep 11
Hii.... surekah
Woooooo good observation but I cant do this observation because I not know here more persons. I cant spend more time here so it is difficult for me to search and conclude any type of observation ..but yes I can tell I am married Indian funny women..and I not start the serious and related to problems topic here I started only funny topic here...
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@sid556 (30960)
• United States
9 Sep 11
Hi Surekharathi,
Well, that particular discussion recieved 23 responses which is only a little drop in the Mylot population. 90% is a pretty high percentage and I don't know as I believe that 90% of the people here are married. And then you have the ones like me that are not married but have been married so we can relate to topics regarding marriage as well as divorce. If the topic at hand has to do with anything within a marriage then of course you are going to get more married people responding to it than singles. I'm not saying you are wrong because I don't know but just saying I'd need more proof than some discussions about marriage issues that singles probably would not respond to anyway. That being said, Single people have plenty to talk about...Dating, nights out at the bar, one-night stands, music, sports, etc etc etc and they could say the same thing because 90% of those responding to their discussions were single.
@chiwasaki (4694)
• Philippines
9 Sep 11
I'm not really sure but I guess it depends on the discussion. I have some discussions where most of the responders are single and unmarried yet. I myself is not yet married but planning to. But I agree with you, married person can start more topics since they have more experiences that they can share. Have a good day!
@akp100 (13640)
• India
9 Sep 11
That's funny observation their. I really can't say that is it true or not. Personally I am unmarried so far. But yes I have many friends here who already married. So it may be true but its all about assumptions.
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
9 Sep 11
No, my friend i don't agree with that. I think you based it from the responses of your discussion.
But supposing you get 100 responses, it doesn't mean that you can get the percentage of that already as to who is married or not. Remember, MYlot's population is at 234,252.
Anyway, some single ladies also snore. Specially those chubby ones.
@koperty3 (1876)
•
9 Sep 11
I have never think about it in that way. If this is true so I'm in this 10%. I'm not married however I live with my partner we feel like married. Sometimes I write about my partner for example that he is chocoholic but I don't like expose my privet life. This belongs to me and my partner.