when ur girl say "sorry, i was having a affair."u will ..........

i think it`s normally if we are dissapointed about that..but what can we do??

much better that she says the truth with her own, than to hear from others. i wont get hurt!. i would be thankful she say right away..

I would appreciate and admire her for saying that.I know that it is really really hard to say sorry especially where all i know that it gonna end up some negative reactions to the person that i considered most special to me but at least i had the courage to do it. I may rather face the consequences with honesty rather going my entire life with deception. Of course my normal reaction is why did she do this to me? and so on and so forth and hatred flows in. But if i love that person i should learn to accept her honesty and give her the chance to make things right.

I'm a girl but taking a guy's perspective, of course I'd feel hurt and betrayed but then, I would like to know what caused the betrayal. I won't try to make things work or ask for a second chance. Maybe a closure would be best. At least she admitted her infidelity before taking your relationship to the next level. Another thing, and it may sound cheap or hypocrite, I would thank her for at least admitting that fact and at least, I wasn't made any more stupid that what I originally was.

If she's sincere that means she cares about how you feel..and that she regrets it.

my reaction would be very painful.. i think it is very hard to handle it..but your girl tells you the truth..it only means she feels sorry for it.. and didn't mean to hurt you..and she has to tell you this for you not to hurt more..i hope you two can solve your problems anyway..