Is it possible for you? Leave the mylot permanently due to any reason.
By smilywomen
@surekharathi (14146)
India
September 9, 2011 5:17am CST
Since 4 days my mother in law not feeling well so all household chores on me and I am the only women to do the work other than my MIL. No maid servant is in our house so washing, cleaning, cooking all burden on me.. In our house husband has not time to give the help so yesterday I feel so tired but even after tiredness I join the mylot so my husband said me ohhh why you are working in mylot why not leave it. Now your backbone is increasing day by day and problem may be arise and even you are doing good you not getting anything. No one loves you and your discussion only showing off..
Leave it or don’t use it more..I tell him promise I will not use it more but please don’t say leave it.. You not know most of the people like me and my discussion so put their response on it…even I am not getting any reward or award I feel happy here.. even lots of household chores I cant leave the mylot permanently..then my husband tell me ohhhh your wish... I cant help
What you think this is possible for you leave the mylot permanently if lots of work burden on you...
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32 responses
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
9 Sep 11
Oh my dear friend, how can anyone say they do not love you and your discussions. Your responses are increasing day by day and many are finding them to be good topics. I definitely understand that offline life must come first no matter what. I do all our household chores and I take breaks in between.
I understand since you work with the institute also that your time is limited. myLot does not cancel accounts for inactivity so why leave permanently. You can come here occasionally and still stay in touch with us all.
I would miss you my friend and I do not agree that you are not loved here. You have many who do care about you and would miss you dearly. I would if I don't see you.
Don't worry about the reward, that will come it just takes longer when one has the points so high. It will come my friend and remember that the personal reward you get here is the love and care from your friends.
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
10 Sep 11
My dear friend yes there will be many who will miss you if you leave us. You are a wonderful contribution to myLot and in order to myLot to continue to thrive it needs members like you. I am happy that you are happy, but wanted to make sure that maybe several are not outright saying to you that they will miss you on your discussion, but I have seen many like Ravi, bharatsharma, Vidhya and many, many more in other discussions say they would miss you dearly.
Stay put my friend and know that you are very loved here, be sure to take care of all offline and when you have time you come here so that we can all enjoy our time.
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@surekharathi (14146)
• India
9 Sep 11
wow! my dear friendthis response will show to my husband because they said me no one is like me and my response. I think they are also checking my heart what I say if they will tell me leave the mylot... but friend do you believe in my eyes tears are but happy tears because I know at least one person miss me every time and love me lot...today fantabulus start very funny discussion and I forget my all yesterday's sadness...
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@ravisivan (14079)
• India
9 Sep 11
Surekha: Yes. a practical situation explained nicely. Priority is to be given for our regular office work/household work and after completing it then we should take up mylot. We can be in touch with mylot always. May be when we do not have other works we will post more responses. When we have more work we will post less responses. Sometimes I feel mylot is a source of relaxation--I am able to talk to a person so far away.
Surekha's discussions are liked by many members of mylot including myself. Here we have to believe Bhagwad Gita. Yes do our duty and leave the rest to God.
Mylot - this is a place reflecting reality of life -- A depends on B and B depends on A and others. Similarly A is also dependent on many others. All are required for one's life to be complete. So all the members of mylot are of one family. We talk more with a few and we talk less with a selected few. This is how I console myself.
I am sure you are enjoying posting in mylot. Tell your husband accordingly and be in touch. As you know I will reach Chennai by first week of October and may after that I may not be able to devote this much time for mylot. Still I will be in touch with all our good friends.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
9 Sep 11
hi ravisivan and surekharathi yes indeed show him all our responses we do all care about you as we are all your mylot friends and yes we love your discussions, you are like a breath of fresh air, happy and funny and smart too. hugs from hatley
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@surekharathi (14146)
• India
9 Sep 11
thanks uncle to support me suggest me but really after completing heavy and all household work it is difficult to join mylot.. but i always try to touch with mylot and mylotter.. I will show this all responses to my husband and will tell him how many people likes my discussion..
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@ravisivan (14079)
• India
9 Sep 11
surekha: yes. I thought I was posting my response as the first one.;But before that 4 people have posted. This also shows more mylot members like your discussions. Enjoy the positive points told by members. good day.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
9 Sep 11
Hi if I were you I would tell husband that this is something that makes me so happy and if you love me you want me to be happy, then
leave me to mylot as it will make me nicer to you too. as for myself I am retired and I have earned the right to do things that I love to do and mylotting is one of them and it does pay me enough to help me with my internet bill.He does not understand we all fall in love with mylot and our mylot friends. that's not a bad thing as long as your back is okay surekharathi but do take care of your health my friend.hugs from hatley
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@surekharathi (14146)
• India
10 Sep 11
ohhh no I am feeling so happy and do you know this discussion is only dedicated to you because I request you to give me mail Id not give me I request you I will call you on your birthday give me cell no.. you not give me.. So suddenly my heart start thinking and that time my husband also told me leave the mylot means both the incidence is happend in same time so I start this discussion to know how many people feel sad specially you if I will leave the mylot.. I know you loves me like as a daughter or naughty friend.. I will never leave mylot till my last breath. Because you feel happy and laughing due to my discussion.. Today I will start(2 hours after) my new funny discussion newly married funny days check it.. Today I will give you lots of
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@surekharathi (14146)
• India
10 Sep 11
sorry due to my happiness I forget to write here dear Madam this discussion is only dedicated to you..
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
9 Sep 11
dear sis,
I also felt like leaving mylot for the past days or month.
But, just thinking about it, hurts me.
So, I decided to stay and keep mylotting.
I don't think of any reason to leave mylot.
I like this site and will never find any site where I can be addicted like I feel it here.
I hope that you will stay my dear sis and won't leave us
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
9 Sep 11
just stay with mylot, you don't need to be doing a lot, just keep checking up here everyday
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@surekharathi (14146)
• India
9 Sep 11
thanks dear sis to tell me dont leave us..but really now its very hard for me household work, office work, and mylot work because my MIL is not feeling well I am only a single lady to do all work..no men is help in our community... they already tired from their business...
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@akp100 (13640)
• India
9 Sep 11
Hi
About leaving mylot permanently, I will be never agree. I really want to be with mylot whenever I got free time. Its true that due to our offline works and other things we can't be here all the time. But its not meaning that I will be not here for all the time. I am loving mylot and I can give my free time to mylot for sure. It feels relaxation whenever I used to be here.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
9 Sep 11
thanks to tell this it is not good idea leaving mylot permanently ...I also like this it is not good idea..
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@koperty3 (1876)
•
9 Sep 11
Why your husband telling you to leave mYlot because it makes you tired. What about chores? It will not make you tired? Leave all that and be here if you are happy here. It would be possible for me to leave myLot for few days but I would miss this place so much.
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@surekharathi (14146)
• India
9 Sep 11
Yes friend they telling me such words but I think they are checking me because when I say I cant leave the mylot even after tiredness they suddenly tell me haha.... I am checking you how you love mylot...
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@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
9 Sep 11
Personally there is No way no matter what comes my way that I could Leave this place. Even though there are times I am not as busy as others, this is still a Great place to be, and I actually have somewhere I can come communicate and share what is going on without having to focus sometimes on real things going on around me. Try showing your husband that this is a Great place to come and how it helps you to relieve some stress etc. and wind down. If you are having Fun being here, in time he will see it and quit bothering you about it as well. Wishing you all the Best.
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@smartbrain69 (2790)
• Canada
9 Sep 11
leaving mylot is not possible, here i have got many friends and tons of knowledge and many toooo.
@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
12 Sep 11
Hi surekha!
This discussion of your features in mylot digest dated 10-9-11. What you have stated may make us conclude that you are addicted to mylot and when one is addicted to something, it gets difficult to leave it. I understand that your posts are simple and meaningful and many users participate in your discussions and this gives you a kind of boost and inner satisfaction to go on and on. Mylotting is not bad as long as you do not ignore your off line activities. As far as am concerned, there is no question of ever leaving mylot. Am here for many years and I always enjoy my moments, when am mylotting.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
12 Sep 11
Yes my friend dpk I am addicted but my husband wants to check me they tell next day..I want to check you..Is it possible for your to leave the mylot or not.. I laughed.. yes I trust only on fun and fun is necessary in life so I mostly started funny discussion like someone knock the door when you are in toilet. haha...Yes this is also true my rating is going down no increasing but no care because I am enjoying here with lots of good friends like you and others...
@mayka123 (16605)
• India
9 Sep 11
I joined mylot in my previous job where I would get a lot of time online. My present job does not permit me to log in to mylot everyday. But still I refuse to leave this site and try and visit whenever possible. There is no way I will leave mylot forever.
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@ravisivan (14079)
• India
9 Sep 11
mayka: Exactly this is what I have stated in my response to Surekha also. In case we have more other responsibilities then we have to reduce our postings here but still be in touch with mylot. nice point. good day.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
9 Sep 11
Thanks my friend mayka to tell this I will showing all this respond to my husband I am also join mylot after completing all household work...I login daily but not effect on daily work..
thanks uncle I will tell to my husband see how many people wants to I should stay here... Not full time but for few minutes or hours...
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@jpso138 (7851)
• Philippines
9 Sep 11
Well, I am happy here in mylot. I have gained friends, enjoyed the discussions and of course have gained earnings along the way. I could not find any reason to quite or leave mylot for good. Actually, I do not post most of the time. I only go here in mylot during my free time. Just like now. Just a couple of response and I am good fine with that already. There were no occasions that It has hampered my work nor my family time. So there is really no problem at all.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
9 Sep 11
thanks to share your view with me.. friend I also feel happy in mylot but due to more workload, my backbone problem my husband tell me this and I think they want to know that my wife is ready to leave the mylot or not means check me..
@preethaanju (3000)
• India
9 Sep 11
I know its difficult to leave mylot permanently. I dont have a system. Yet i come to a cyber cafe to join in to mylot discussion. One word of advice. Dont thank people when you give responses to their replies.This will decrease your earnings.
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@surekharathi (14146)
• India
9 Sep 11
ohhh no friend really you join the cafe for mylot ohhh my god what is the charge of your cafe per hour. and please what is your advice means I not put my thanks in my comment on my discussions responses if yes tell me please..
@anil02 (24688)
• India
9 Sep 11
Hello I know you are a devoted member of my lot. You are much active here. But remember time changed. We must be decide our Priority according to time. At present your MIL is not feeling. So your first priority is to look after her and your house. Second priority is your health. After it you have time than my lot.
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@anil02 (24688)
• India
10 Sep 11
Thanks, you like my response. For me my family is on top priority. All thing after it. Why we are doing all these things. Only for our family. So you care your health. You need not to have a long break from here. When you feel easy mark you presence here. Good luck
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
9 Sep 11
wow! thanks my friend nice response and from tomorrow I will follow your suggestion you are right first family members then health and then mylot and now no one like me so not increasing my point also so I also want to break here..
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@johnpillai (2082)
• Germany
9 Sep 11
this happen to me many time. as a housewife, time to time i am unable to be active in mylot. But I don't bother that. As I don't like to leave mylot permanently i just visit mylot and response for one discussion. this is the way i keek mylot account not deleted. Yes mylot is always good and it accepts our difficulties.
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@surekharathi (14146)
• India
9 Sep 11
yes friend you are right even put only one response but at least touch with mylot...I will try to visit daily for sometime.. I think my husband was check me and my opinion..
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@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
10 Sep 11
My husband, also forbade me to go online. Not only in MyLot. Even I, can not open the internet. And, I indulge my husband. I had a couple of weeks, not online MyLot. But, because I really want to log in MyLot, I finally opened MyLot stealth. But eventually, I was allowed to open the internet again. Although domestic work very much. I can still log on MyLot. I logged in MyLot with mobile phones. So, I can log in MyLot, on the sidelines of completing household chores.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
11 Sep 11
Yes my friend you are right domestic workload is more so feel difficult to join mylot but when we join mylot forget every tiredness...
@bamrahkirti (1821)
• India
10 Sep 11
I do not know what is in store for me in future but as of now i love to be part of this community.Though i do not log in regularly due to time constraint but once in a while i do check in to see what my fellow mylotters are doing.I just find this place very friendly and it is like second family to me.
I am a working mother and have a full time job.But this place holds special place in my heart and i always come back here for rejuvenation.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
10 Sep 11
yes I also love the mylot community and no one knows what will happen in future. Great views second family for you but this is third family for me like one is my native place second is my MIL's place and third one is mylot hah...
@haiershen (1080)
• China
12 Sep 11
i wonder that why you hundred not allowed you stay with us in mylot, this site is very popular all of the world, in here, we are talking about our thought or the problem we meet or give some encourage to others who are in the sad, it is a good place for stree relieve. it seems no bad for ours. for me, i never have the thought that leave mylot permanently, though some times i'm leave mylot for several days because of my busy job or other factors.
i'm glad that you are still here. have a nice day!
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
12 Sep 11
Now my husband is ready to continue here they give me the permission for continuing they are checking me...yes if necessary I will take leave for some days...
@CTHanum (8234)
• Malaysia
9 Sep 11
HI sis!
I am off from mylot more than a week because of offline life and now I am back and trying to get the mood back. Leave it for a while is okay for me but to eave it I don't think I will do it. Just let say if I can't be here everyday I will make sure at least I get back here once in a while. To forget mylot and remove it from my lives, that is not going to happen.(^^)
Anyway I think you should take a rest for awhile from mylot or not being here till your mother in law get well and only then you get back here sis.But make sure you inform us first..(^^)
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
10 Sep 11
hello dear sis thanks to join my discussion after long time.. and I feel happy to see that you are remember about me.. yes for some time break is valid but leave idea is not good yes I will inform you.. But I want to thank to all and mylot because I remind my funny events due to mylot today I start one discussion noise while waking up and our MIL family is really different people do the noise while sleeping but my MIL stat noise while waking up.. If you have time read it and tell how is my experience..
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@fantabulus (4000)
• India
10 Sep 11
hello hiii surekha
What are you saying you are leaving the mylot are you saying like you are leaving the life ahha.... dont think this otherwise give me your cell no. I will call you and talk with your husband and I will say him we needs her discussion for laughing so dont tell her to leave the mylot okkkk keep in touch dont go far..
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
10 Sep 11
wow! fanta what a sentence leave mylot means leave life.. I got new title for starting new discusson... ohhhh dont worry my hubby is ready for my continuation..
@pennywise25 (321)
• Mexico
10 Sep 11
Bad for you, but I can't fi any relationship between your story and the fact that you must leave Mylot permanently. I think you always can login every then and now. Mylot is not a site you need to speen lots of times in, plus you can earn money which would be so good for you.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
11 Sep 11
ohhh you feel bad for me thanks really this is bad for me but I will not leave mylot join at least once in day...yes this is not only a site but also like our part of life..