I Know I am not a good friend….
By Ifamous
@ifa225 (14460)
Indonesia
September 9, 2011 7:54am CST
I rare to communicate with all of you guys, I rare to spend some of my spare time with you…and it make me seem that I am careless. But truly, you guys are always on my mind. I often think how do you do, wonder what you guys are doing now.
In the end of the day, I found my self so tired and I can’t even reach the computer and type just to say hello or even try to find the answer what is on my mind. Please forgive me….
Maybe I need a smartphone so I can log in to my lot anytime and anywhere and typing while I can still get a rest. wish me luck I could get enough money this month so I can buy it ?
And I hope you still take me as your friend here.
And I just wonder how tech really affects our life .Do you think if you can’t access the tech means you can’t get more friends too?
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13 responses
@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
9 Sep 11
It is sooooo good to see you again! 
I don't have a smartphone but I do have lots of friends. I can keep in touch with them just the same and because they are friends I know that they have other things to do too and might not get back to me imediately - but eventually, when they can, they will - and they do 
I don't have a smartphone but I do have lots of friends. I can keep in touch with them just the same and because they are friends I know that they have other things to do too and might not get back to me imediately - but eventually, when they can, they will - and they do 
@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
12 Sep 11
Oh I am so pleased that you are not in love with me because that could have been very complicated... and difficult to explain 
but that does not mean i am in love with you 
@cream97 (29086)
• United States
9 Sep 11
Hi, ifa225. It is what is in your heart that matters, ifa225, not how soon that you can get to a computer of some sort to type.
We all live busy lives and we can't always be here like we would desire to. I understand how hard that it can be for you. You may become very tired from working all day and you are just unable to log onto myLot. That is very completely understandable on your part. It is so good to hear from you though and I hope that you will be able to fully rest yourself so that you can enjoy yourself here at myLot again. Take care!
We all live busy lives and we can't always be here like we would desire to. I understand how hard that it can be for you. You may become very tired from working all day and you are just unable to log onto myLot. That is very completely understandable on your part. It is so good to hear from you though and I hope that you will be able to fully rest yourself so that you can enjoy yourself here at myLot again. Take care!1 person likes this
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
10 Sep 11
oh you have a new avatar is that you?you have a lovely smile and are very pretty. congrats.take care. hugs from hatley
@ifa225 (14460)
• Indonesia
12 Sep 11
She is so pretty 
it has been for months that i didn't do some discussion. and i missed it a lot and i guess that i feel much refresh and ready to have some debate here
thanks for the support. i remember that you are busy too in your daily life..but still we are friends
it has been for months that i didn't do some discussion. and i missed it a lot and i guess that i feel much refresh and ready to have some debate here
thanks for the support. i remember that you are busy too in your daily life..but still we are friends 
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
9 Sep 11
Hi ifa
In today's world... yes, there are many who would say that you need tech to stay connected... but I have a different approach... I still am old fashioned and believe that tech is just a means... neither the only way nor the always right means... I missed you and tech had nothing to do with that. I still believe that the "feeling" is important...otherwise there is no use of tech or anything else between any relation.
In today's world... yes, there are many who would say that you need tech to stay connected... but I have a different approach... I still am old fashioned and believe that tech is just a means... neither the only way nor the always right means... I missed you and tech had nothing to do with that. I still believe that the "feeling" is important...otherwise there is no use of tech or anything else between any relation.1 person likes this
@ifa225 (14460)
• Indonesia
12 Sep 11
Hi Sid 
i just want to stay chat with all our friends here any time anywhere, and tech can help it.
i am imagining that i can chat with you while i am watching Tv or doing something else. it feels like i am saving more time than if i had to use computer. i have to stay focus and sitting without doing anything but typing 
tech sometimes makes our life feel far better if we know how to use it
i just want to stay chat with all our friends here any time anywhere, and tech can help it.
i am imagining that i can chat with you while i am watching Tv or doing something else. it feels like i am saving more time than if i had to use computer. i have to stay focus and sitting without doing anything but typing
tech sometimes makes our life feel far better if we know how to use it
@humairaku (2038)
• Indonesia
9 Sep 11
hi ifa..! I'm just like you. I joined Mylot in 2009 and I seldom open my account to start a discussion or response to other discussion cos sometimes I'm tired in using English..LOL..so I ever stopped all my activities on Mylot for about a year. but I never think that I leave my friends here cos, frankly, I never think that people here know me. so when I decided to stop I just felt alright. and I made my come back time few days ago. and it was surprising that in fact there are some people here knew me and they asked me why I disappeared. yeah, Mylot is not merely a payout site but also a good community to know and share each other..
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@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
9 Sep 11
My dear friend Ifa!
There is no such thing as not being connected makes one a bad friend. Dear true friends do not condition their friends and truly understand that offline life must be a priority. Do stop by from time to time and even with your discussions we can see and know you are doing well.
Be well and welcome back.
There is no such thing as not being connected makes one a bad friend. Dear true friends do not condition their friends and truly understand that offline life must be a priority. Do stop by from time to time and even with your discussions we can see and know you are doing well.
Be well and welcome back. 1 person likes this
@bnpraveen (172)
• India
9 Sep 11
hai friend
good friend or bad friend does not depends up on sparing time to chat, every one got their own work, when ever you feel free just remember to post a discussion this brings every friend back in touch with you,
have a great day friend
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@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
12 Sep 11
Hi ifa!
Your off line commitments are also important and it is understandable that when you are not able to communicate with your friends here, you are busy in some other activities. This does not mean that you are not loyal towards your friends or do not remember them. We have full faith in you that you do not forget mylot friends, even when you are off line.
@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
12 Sep 11
I fully believe y ou that you keep thinking about mylot friends and keep recalling the conversation. Time flies very quickly and we never come to know about it.
I do not forget my friends easily.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
10 Sep 11
hi ifa I have seen you on here a lot so you have not been
careless. we all know each of us have offline lives we must
take care of so we all cut each other a lot of slack ifa
so do not feel bad. oh I would love to have a smartphone
but its only an elderly lady's dream as I have very little
money and its most all spoken for but I still have my computer and my monitor too. so at least I can mylot and can afford to pay my cable internet bill each month too .I really am so glad I am alive in this technical age of wonders. its so much fun.
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
13 Sep 11
hi friend. it's nice to see you back again. well, i don't think it is a problem if you cannot come here more often and communicate with us. we all goes busy with some other things that make us away from these tech machines. but you are always welcome to get back.
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
19 Sep 11
well, my son is doing great after the surgery. even the day after the actual operation, the signs of apnea is lost and until these days, he is not even snoring when he sleep.
@sql_cell (1427)
• Indonesia
9 Sep 11
Although you rarely communicate, you remain friends all the members of MyLot. Hopefully, your desire to buy a smart phone, can be realized immediately. I logged in MyLot now, use the phone. I do not use smart phones, but I still can, log in MyLot.
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@ifa225 (14460)
• Indonesia
12 Sep 11
Hi Sql,
i can log in to my lot through my phone now, but unfortunately i can't make any discuss or response to the discussion.
what kind of your phone, i m looking a phone that i can use to discuss in my lot, not only facebook. i hope you can inform me more about your phone
@tammy27 (1241)
• Philippines
9 Sep 11
if accessing the tech means maining friends for you, then i cannot change that. but for me, a friend is someone who is there when you need him. a friend is someone who will laugh with you and cry with you, and all those stuffs. you don't have to check on your friends 24/7, im sure they understand how busy you are, or whatever situation you're in. :)
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@libertaire45 (6)
• Canada
10 Sep 11
Hey! Don't worry: you are not alone in this situation. When I come back home from work, I too am very tired and I don't have in mind to take the phone and call some friends. Also, I'm not home every evening and when I do, I spend time on Facebook and You Tube when I'm not reading. So I don't consider myself as a good good friend either, but that doesn't mean I'm on the verge of losing my own friends: they have their own matters and occupations.
@ankitbhat (269)
• India
10 Sep 11
really you keep thinking how mylotters are doing ,,funny though ...not a sarcasm but really i get up caught up amongst many things that i really get time to think about anyone not even my girl freind that why she is pissed off me most of the times but anyways reaching to the tech doesnt mean you are gonna make more ...social life is fake life for me not a real one ....if you befriend your homies that would be more better because they know you better than anybody else do right????so find some frinds in your hood man not on social networking sites
@ifa225 (14460)
• Indonesia
12 Sep 11
i keep on thinking how are my friends..every time i go to sleep. it is sound sarcasm, i don't have a boy friend maybe that is why i keep on thinking about friends.
i have less friend in my social because my job. but still i try to contact them whenever i can. but my heart is on my lot, even they are not a true friends. our conversation here sometimes run in my mind over and over
