in a relationship with your phone
By IAmMbl
@mabeldaclan (787)
Philippines
September 9, 2011 9:20am CST
Hello fellow Mylotters!
Again, my first time to login after a few busy weeks in school.
So, I just had someone as my boyfriend last August, but, we only see each other maybe once or twice a year. So, often, we communicate through phone. We discuss and talk about issues and things and other cute stuffs.
What bothers me is the "phone thing". Since we are far from each other, we rarely have time to be together. And I think that being together really helps in building a good relationship. Now, I've been thinking about "me having a relationship with my phone" and "not him" since I don't see him that often. I really don't think its a healthy thing for the both of us.
3 responses
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
10 Sep 11
Yeah, you're always on your phone like you have a deep relationship with it.
Me too, I always message my girl whenever we're apart. I'm almost always at my phone messaging her on Facebook.
Me too, I always message my girl whenever we're apart. I'm almost always at my phone messaging her on Facebook.
@mabeldaclan (787)
• Philippines
10 Sep 11
But you still see her personally?
Nah, its so sweet of you. And its good to always keep in touch with her, so you'll know the whereabouts and happenings about her. 
Nah, its so sweet of you. And its good to always keep in touch with her, so you'll know the whereabouts and happenings about her. 
@flowerfest08 (1677)
•
9 Sep 11
hi:)
oh that's hard having a long-distance relationship, I've been there, my first boyfriend migrated to Canada two years ago, so for almost 6 months we talk through phone or video chatting, it's just hard because when we need to say goodbye we just do flying kiss or sometimes he's so crazy and ask me to kiss him on the cam:D LOL! hehe but it didn't last that long, we didn't succeed in keeping our relationship being away with each other is just hard. *sigh*
have a good day friend!
@mabeldaclan (787)
• Philippines
10 Sep 11
Oh, I'm sorry to hear that. But at least, it lasted for several months considering the fact that its really hard to maintain the feeling when you're apart. I wish you'll find someone who will love you more.
@zassx1337 (87)
• Slovenia
9 Sep 11
What do you mean by "relationship with phone"? Sorry just don't get it. :$
And yes it helps if you are together. I was always admireing people that had a relationship with someone from far away.
I don't want to be rude, but I don't know how you can handle it. How can't this thing fall apart if you don't see eachother? I can't imagine how it would be if I wouldn't be able to see my girlfriend for a certain time. Daaamn. :S
It seems to me that the GF and BF in this care are just really good friends and not a couple.
@mabeldaclan (787)
• Philippines
9 Sep 11
With the phone, because, the only way we can be together is through calls, and text messages. It's like having on online or a virtual boyfriend. If I lose my phone, there are fewer chances of communication or no communication at all. Its a killer really. I really miss him so much because he is just so far from me.
And the possibility that he might find someone else while we're not together. My!
