A simple question about love...anyone has the answer?

Love is very unpredictable. And yes, when we are in love and the relationship breaks up, it is very hard to say goodbye. I believe it's for more then just being in love. I believe saying goodbye hurts so much as something to do with being used to the person. Being connected for so long, it's like it became part of us. And I do believe you know when it's the right one, because it has a special feeling, not the typical normal in love feelings. I cannot explain it, but it does exist.

Hmm personally i didnt fall in love each day its a big difrence between to be atrached and to fall in love,where the first yeah it happned to me very often(so as the most people in the world),but love is a very deep strong feeling which we cant be confuse with something else.However even when the one we really love is gone and this is a fact woman overcome the pain the whole this situation much faster than the men so imagine what we would feel :)!?

Hi didi.. Love conquers all but hard to find out the real love. sad. have a nice time.

The easiest things in life sweetie, normally hurst the most. They say it's a good education though.

Dear sis I loved my game chess..and I am District level chess player..you are right everyone fall in love but when someone is tell me I fall in love with a girl or boy I tell dont take risk because I know now in new generation love is only risk not real love is exist.. only attraction is there nothing than this because today I saw news a boy killed her girl friend and make 8 pieces of her body.. only the reason is she was talking to other boy...

hi jaiho, If we only have a choice for sure we will not let go of the person we love It bleeds, it breaks, it can make us INSANE miss yah

My beautiful sis jai, you seem to be obsessed with love as i have been seeing lately that you have had started several discussions on this topic.We humans are very fickle when it comes to love.We very easily fall in and fall out of love.This is because the mind is very unstable.It gets attracted to something very quickly and is restive until it acquires it. After acquiring its desired object it then starts to lose interest in that same object and then abandons it.The same thing goes for human love.Human love is not true love because it is more related to the body, and this is called infatuation.Human love is always conditional and is dependant on give and take.If you give love to someone you expect love in return and if that does not hapeen then there is heartbreak and despair.I have had a brush with love very early in my life but it fizzled out and i was none the worse for it.Since then i have never found anybody to love who could give me unconditional love and so i stayed away from it throughout my life and i have no regrets either.

Love is not meant for everyone. I am one of those persons. I have been in love twice. Neither love lasted. I am to old to fall in love and love hurts to much! I don't need that pain in my life and the hassle of someone else in my life driving my insane. To me love stinks and I will be alone for the rest of my life and I am fine with that!

Hello Sis-Jai, I believe as a HUMAN, if the relationship had a very strong foundation and they had something good then letting go would be too hard. I remember a friend of mine which we have known since college. they have a child, things i thought were doing well in their relationship. or so i thought, it seems that those years they are on the rocks.I felt sad for her but she is mature enough not to tell me her problem, oh heck she didn't trust me in the first place for some reason. Letting go is never easy, but one way or the other, we have to move forward so that others (could be better) can have our Love too

Hi jaiho: I think that is not so easy to let someone go because we are a little bit selfish. We'd love to have someone we appreciate and love forever and even if we know that a relationship working and that it also is hurting us we keep hope. we are not computers, we have feelings and sometimes even if the right choice is to let go we suffer because of this. ALVARO

Oh yeah, I been fall in love, but I don't think that love ever love me back in return, no matter how much I gave already. Somehow, I just don't want to dedicate myself too much, at the end, I might be the only who hurt the most. I want to fall in love, just once, a real love at once within my lifetime.

Hello my friend, That is the bad side of love when itis over and say goodbye. We must accept the reality of the consequences of true love.

First of all let me elaborate what I have meanings of love in my dictionary. For me "Love is giving without demanding anything back in response". Now did I feel hurt because of this word "LOVE". No and never, why? because when for me love is giving wihtout demanding anything back than why be sad for that thing which I never demand in first place? or When I am already ready for giving only and never think my buddy will give any kind of response and I will never try to get anything response than I think there is plenty of chances to get ready for any problem in advance by mentally. Wish no body will hurt because of "LOVE" Cheers

I remembered one thing from love always hurts. loving and loved it all but sometimes limited. how often hurt by love. and love can sometimes hurt us and it's really true. but I hope never to anyone hurt en to become immune to this pain. nice day!

hi jaiho right now I am hurting and its not about romantic love but just maybe liking an friendship . my last discussion this one user rebuked me harshly telling me i am mean and et c etc .I did not make that discussion to be mean to anyone now I am so down and near tears. what joy did this person get out of abusing me and demeaning me in a response for all to see? I would never had done that to her. If I have some objection to something in mylot someone did I would private message them not try to destroy then in public, being rebuked here hurts too.I am too old to cry.I wish my deceased husband was here right now.

Well! the philosophy of Life is and it should be yours also, that, If you love someone, set him free. If he comes back to you, consider that he is yours. If he does not come back to you, consider that he was never yours. Well thats how relationships are maintained. Hard to digest?? You have to go on in life and forget the past. On this note, have a good weekend.

It hurts! :D

Oh, I just fall in love love and I even don't wanna think that she leave me. When I can't even think about that, I can understand that it will heart. But I never let her go.

To love or to be loved both are not easy passions as we think.All the joys that love gives cannot compensate for the ache on departure. But departure is inevitable, love also.So love one invisible, at infinity as well as hidden in shadow, never touchable nor reachable. [Mohkanari]