what do you do to relieve your stress???

stress - I am in stress.
@sjvg1976 (41290)
Delhi, India
September 10, 2011 10:16pm CST
Hello MYLOTTERS, I have found that when i am stressed i like to sit alone in open at top floor of my house for an hour that relaxes my mind.I like to talk to friends also when i am stressed.What do you do in this situation?.
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• United States
11 Sep 11
I like to go on YouTube, find my favorite people and watch any new videos they might have uploaded. I also like to take walks once in a while. However, to be honest, my biggest stress reliever is going to the shooting range. I'm not sure why, but shooting is something I simply love to do. It is getting pretty expensive though.
@sjvg1976 (41290)
• Delhi, India
11 Sep 11
Hello Kia, Shooting range may be thats your hobby and you like to shoot away your stress hehehe.But doing what you like most can relieve your stress.But i feel to go to natural place like sitting near the bank of river and watching birds and other natural things are the best thing to relieve stress and sometimes i do it.
• United States
11 Sep 11
Hi svg Depends on what I am stress about but find that taking a walk to clear my mind usually helps somewhat. It if gets really bad I find being alone helps me sort things out clearer in my mind. I can't have anyone ask me over and over what is wrong as thinking out loud makes me stress even more.
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@sjvg1976 (41290)
• Delhi, India
11 Sep 11
Hello HWG, Oh thats irritating when someone ask repeatedly what happened?. Yeah walking also is a stress relieving activity.
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@gloryacam (5540)
• Philippines
11 Sep 11
Lucky for me there are a lot of ways I can cope with stress. And these ways I use depending on the situation. So, I can: listen to music, sing, cry, exercise, eat (unhealthy, I know!), pray, read the bible, take a long walk, tear a lot of papers (this is good when I'm really stressed and angry), sleep ( true), rant at MyLot (), call, text or chat with my friend, write in my journal, finish the dang job, etc.
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@gloryacam (5540)
• Philippines
11 Sep 11
I actually do sometimes at the office and with my friends. First thing I tell them is to breathe slowly. And then I let them rant and rant about what they're feeling. Somehow, after ranting, I almost always feel them start to calm a bit.
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@sjvg1976 (41290)
• Delhi, India
11 Sep 11
Hello Glory, Oh my you have lots of methods to relieve stress hehehe. i think you should help people to relieve their stress.hahaha
@sjvg1976 (41290)
• Delhi, India
16 Sep 11
Hahaha thats great technique but what will happen if their ranting is heard by their BOSS in the office hehehe
@akp100 (13640)
• India
11 Sep 11
Hi sj Its weird.. But whenever I feel stressed, I used to open my laptop and watch cartoons. I am having few anime cartoon saved on my laptop(all action and adventure related) and I saw them very frequently. Otherwise I used to be here on mylot.. By spending time here with friends always feels relaxation.
@akp100 (13640)
• India
11 Sep 11
well its not weird to me but.. I think mostly all people thinks that cartoons are for only children. But I will never accept it.
@sjvg1976 (41290)
• Delhi, India
11 Sep 11
Hello AKP, Thats not weird i also love to watch TOM & JERRY,Charlie Chaplin.These in fact release all tensions in your mind and make environment lighter.
@sjvg1976 (41290)
• Delhi, India
11 Sep 11
No buddy its not only for kids its for their parents too.I like cartoons liked only TOM & JERRY and Charlie Chaplin but now i also see DORIMON,SHING SHANG also which my kids watch with curiosity.
• Philippines
11 Sep 11
When I' stresses, I either sleep or go out and roam around. I sleep because its tiring to think of your stressor. Of course, no matter how much effort you exert to forget something, that won't surely go away. After my sleep, I am relieved a little or sometimes, totally relieved. Sleeping helps me relax my system or my mind. Or the other one, I roam around. Wherever possible. May it be a mall or just the long road that would intersect with the other road if you've gone far enough. Like in your own drama movie. . If you get tired, then, you can go home and again, just sleep.
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• Philippines
12 Sep 11
Yeah, there's a great tendency that you will think of the one you're worrying about when you're trying to sleep. But, I just don't know with my case. During the first few minutes, I think about that, then, maybe I just get tired of thinking about that then eventually fall asleep. If you are an impulsive buyer, don't go to malls when you roam around. Maybe you won't even notice if you've spent a lot already.
@sjvg1976 (41290)
• Delhi, India
16 Sep 11
hehehe i don't go to malls even i am not stressed because i don't spend much on the stuffs my wife does the shopping for me. Yes true thats the reason i don't able to sleep when i am stressed as all those thoughts keep on revolving and making me more stressed.
@sjvg1976 (41290)
• Delhi, India
12 Sep 11
hello mabel, SLEEP.I don't get it because my mind always remain occupied with the stress which don't allow me to sleep but to roam around is a good one i do it most of the times.
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
11 Sep 11
I usually listen to music or take a nap. I have found that music is such a great stress reliever. i just listen to my favourite music with my doors closed and yes that feels really good. I think it depends on people though, and every one has their own ways of dealing with stress.
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• South Korea
12 Sep 11
Yeah that part might be true. There are possibilities of seeing those stressful things and events. And if that happens, the stress might double
@sjvg1976 (41290)
• Delhi, India
11 Sep 11
Hello thatgirl, Oh yeah listening to music is the best stress reliever.Taking nap i don't get asleep easily even if i get then i see dreams of the things for what i am stressed about.
@sjvg1976 (41290)
• Delhi, India
16 Sep 11
Oh yes it will definitely happen.
@GemmaR (8517)
11 Sep 11
When I am stressed, I will put some good music on and exercise. I am trying to lose weight at the moment, and it helps me to cope with my stress if I am able to go for a run or even just dance to some music with a good beat to it. I have lost almost five stones to date, and it is certainly due to the fact that I am a lot less stressed than I have been in the past. Also, having a nice hot bath is helpful and this is something that I need to start taking advantage of a little bit more than I have been doing lately.
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@sjvg1976 (41290)
• Delhi, India
12 Sep 11
Hello Gemma, Yes MUSIC is the best and the common way to relieve stress and most of the people do it.That way you can always keep yourself free from stress.I have not tried taking bath in the stress but definitely i will try and check it out. Its good to know that that at present you remain less stressed than you used to be in the past.
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
11 Sep 11
Hi sjvg Normally, I come with stress and confusions... but I cannot do anything much to avoid them. So when in stress, I do different things at different times and it is not just one boring step all the time When it is raining, and I am better in health - I would get out in the rain. When it is quite hot - I take a bath, when there is no such scope, watching a movie on this PC works fine... Normally however, now there is nothing that can keep me stressed for more than a couple of hours at max. but a few years back, I was much stressed and remained upset for long.
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
11 Sep 11
Got married in 2007, was bedridden for 8 months in 2008 and during this attempted to kill myself, have been ill and jobless since then. Arent these reasons enough to be stressed. But then dear, I realized that life is what you get only once. I can either sulk or live my way. I chose to live myway. I accepted the illness as a part of me. The fact that I will never work at an office and stay indoors all throughout - I started working online. These made my life easier and I now am more positive and so there is less stress now. And yes, I can take up on so many options to get rid of my stress only because of the fact that I stay at home all day, all night (oh yes, there are days and times when I do go to my parents, to the hospital and also my little orphan friends) that makes me more prepared for stress removal Thanks friend. I will surely seek your help when I am stressed
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@sjvg1976 (41290)
• Delhi, India
11 Sep 11
Hello sids, I think you have lot of options to relieve your stress and thats better because if one does not work then you can go for another one.hehehe Dear sids you are always welcome to talk to me when you feel stressed may be i can help you out to relieve your stress. Oh why you were stressed for so long Sids???
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
12 Sep 11
I seek for funny stuff such as in the internet or better yet, watch Lord of the Rings, there's no way my mood won't change while watching the best movie ever.
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@sjvg1976 (41290)
• Delhi, India
16 Sep 11
Hello Katie, Movie always divert mind from the things which stresses but i don't like to see movie as it stresses me more. hehehe
@asyria51 (2861)
• United States
12 Sep 11
i have found that even 5 minutes to myself in a quiet room is enough for me to destress. I am not getting that 5 minutes very often lately, and could definitely use it as my child is screaming in my ear.
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@sjvg1976 (41290)
• Delhi, India
15 Sep 11
Hello asyria51, That's the new one but not a bad one as being calm for 5 minutes will give rest to your mind and your mind will be relieved by it.
• United States
12 Sep 11
I just watch television or listen to music. Sometimes I exercise and I always listen to music when I'm exercising and watch tv so it's a perfect combination lol. When I'm on my tredmil, I always listen to my ipod and watch TV in the background. Sometimes talking to friends is relaxing for me as well but sometimes they just add on so much more to my stress lol. Depends what mood their in.
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@sjvg1976 (41290)
• Delhi, India
13 Sep 11
Hello lucy,thats true listening to music and watching TV are the best options available to releive stress as that way we divert our mind from the thoughts yielding stress.OH yes i too félt it that sometimes talking to a friend when your are stressed can increase stress instead of reducing it.hehehe
• Philippines
11 Sep 11
I go to the mall and shop. Also, I eat ice cream. It feels so good.
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@sjvg1976 (41290)
• Delhi, India
12 Sep 11
That way you divert your mind and indulge in some other activity resulting which you are able to forget things due to which you are stressed.
• India
11 Sep 11
when i m stressed then i just go to my mom,and just put my head on her shoulder and just want to sleep with him,my moms is very lovebale and caring lady,she is very sweet ,after spending time with my mom,and some sleeping i feel fresh,and a lot of time ,when i stressed i am just going to my garden,and spend a lot of time there for freshment
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@sjvg1976 (41290)
• Delhi, India
12 Sep 11
Hello vandana, Oh yeah that way you definitely relieve stress.Sleeping and too in the lap of mother i can imagine will be the best way to relieve stress.
• India
13 Sep 11
thanks for support me dear
@Hooch12 (12)
• United States
12 Sep 11
I like to go for walks and listen to my favorite songs
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@sjvg1976 (41290)
• Delhi, India
15 Sep 11
Hello Hooch, Listening MUSIC and going walk are the most common and effective way to release stress most of the people do it.
• Philippines
11 Sep 11
I pray when I am stress out. Next is to try to deviate my mind by doing other things that I love to do like cooking, walking or listening to music. Exercise is another way of relieving stress. When I sing my favorite songs or play my computer games my mind is relieve of the stress until I find a way to deal with what is causing my stress. There are some causes of stress that you cannot do anything to resolve like when the cause is the way others treat you even if you are a victim of the situation. All I do is to learn to set it aside. Not allowing it to affect my day. There are more things in life that can make me look forward to the day.
@sjvg1976 (41290)
• Delhi, India
11 Sep 11
Hello starrose, Thats perfect one. One should find ways to divert mind to some other activity so as to forget the things for which they are stressed of.We should always try it and its better to choose the things of our interest as it would be more helpful to divert mind then.
@ankitbhat (269)
• India
11 Sep 11
shove in my earphones and forget about the whole and listen to some great music thats what i do to overcome stress ..but stressing yourself aint for good health and plzzz somebody rates me please
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@sjvg1976 (41290)
• Delhi, India
11 Sep 11
Hello Ankit, MUSIC is certainly the best remedy to release stress and relax mind.I also do it sometimes.
11 Sep 11
hi:) I usually listen to music and do mylotting when I'm stressed, but if I'm out I talk to my friends too,then I take advantage of that moment to write my personal blog, because that's the best time when I can put my thoughts into writing.
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@sjvg1976 (41290)
• Delhi, India
11 Sep 11
Hello Flowerfest, Talking to friend online/offline is also one of the methods to relieve stress i also use it sometimes.
@hafiz008 (450)
• India
11 Sep 11
The best way to relax is go to the nearest place where do you feel good natural beauty and enjoy it along with friends. It will makes you feel good and also try to enjoy the breeze. Also try find the reason for the stress and find out the solution how to avoid it.You must understand that "Nothing is Impossible."
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@sjvg1976 (41290)
• Delhi, India
11 Sep 11
Hello Hafiz, Oh yeah i sit alone on the river bank when i am upset and depressed as i also find it the best way to change mood.
@emjay86 (640)
• Philippines
11 Sep 11
When I am stressed, sometimes I sing. I don't care if I have a bad voice. Just that singing lets out that stress and relaxes me after. :)
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@sjvg1976 (41290)
• Delhi, India
11 Sep 11
Hello emjay, Thats good.Bad voice don't mean one cannot sing. Thats right you should do whatever you like most to relieve your stress this is the best remedy.
• United States
11 Sep 11
I read, clean, write, or talk to friends. In the summer I go fishing a lot.
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@sjvg1976 (41290)
• Delhi, India
11 Sep 11
Hello Jenni, Catching fish is good as you divert your mind from the stress in that case.