can you blame women attracted to married man ?

Philippines
September 11, 2011 12:39am CST
It's so confusing to me why right now i am attracted to a guy who from the very start i know that he is already taken. Is it just for adventure? Am i just bored? I really feel bad, however he is so nice to me and i like him. I'm so single and there's a lot of man out there not in a relationship but what it is about this guy that makes me so stupid. They said that the choices you made today determine where you end up later. And oh yeah...the circumstances under which you get together. It made me feel really guilty thinking that if i get involved with a married man its like me saying "it is perfectly okay that a husband cheats on his wife. " That's terrible ! But why does he flirts, he teases, hmmmm... I believe the choice is mine. I call the shots. Why does he starts when i least expects it. Why does a married man try to hit me in the first place? His stares, the calling me baby thing aaarhg...the attention...its so overwhelming! So heaven help me!
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@pogi253 (1596)
• Philippines
22 Sep 11
Being tangled with a married man creates a lot of complications for everybody. Falling in love with a married man is not decent for you or for his family. You should study yourself a well person than that. At times, it is healthier to give up something that we love in order to live a further peaceful life. Falling in love with a married man conveys nothing but despairs. Somebody will get unhappy in the long run and the chances are that it might be you. The issues that an affair makes are really not worth the effort. There are a lot of men that are generously available to date and fall in love with. There is no necessity to destroy others in the course. If you are in affection with a married man, the preeminent thing for you to do is walk away from it. There may come a while that he is free to be with you, however right now isn't one of them.
• Philippines
23 Sep 11
Tangled?...hmmm..olrayt...whaever you say ...i'll just walk away then ...:) thanks
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
13 Dec 12
Obviously if women knows the men is married then why attracted on his side because she is doing wrong breaking another women relations and house. I not understand why the spouse not understand someone is already love them. Why they need one another relations in outside home.