What Would You Do?

I understand what you mean. I am sort of like you. When I do something from the heart, I don't like people twisting it to mean something else. I have a history of being late with work. But over the past ten years, I've tried to make a reputation for myself. I've always been known as one who tries to keep his word. But knowing technology, when I have a deadline, I try to finish it early. I usually send the project as soon as I finish it. I tell them that I'm sending it early just in case my computer crashes or something goes wrong and that I might send another version, if I find mistakes on the first version. Then I continue to look for bugs and mistakes and, if nothing goes wrong, I'll send the revised version by deadline. If I find I did good the first time, then I don't send any more submissions. But one thing I don't let anyone do. I don't let people define who I am. If you are responsble, then you are responsible. You are human and bad luck hits you and you learn from that and keep on moving upwards.

If you say that it happens quite often then you must be doing something wrong in their eyes. Maybe you should try evaluating yourself. Though you think that you have an excuse and they should understand, the fact is they don't; and no matter what people tell you that you should just be who you are and not care what others think of you, that is only true if you plan to live alone for the rest of your life. Sometimes you have to make yourself more likeable.