Is anyone really right or wrong?
By jennigoff33
@jennigoff33 (332)
United States
September 11, 2011 5:19pm CST
I believe that people are so different, that sometimes even people that may seem wrong to me, might not be wrong at all. I just think who am I to judge someone. No one should really care what others do if it don't effect them and stop looking for ways to make what they do about them. Is anyone really right or wrong? What do you think?
6 responses
@pahak627 (4558)
• Philippines
11 Sep 11
Anyone can be right or can be wrong depending on what the person is doing. We have laws to follow. If we violate any law, then we are wrong. If we follow the laws, we are always right. But there are some who are doing something not against the law but may not accepted by the society. For example, a single person who has several intimate relationships with single persons like him or her. It is not against the law but some people may not accept it.
@jennigoff33 (332)
• United States
12 Sep 11
Your kinda getting what I am meaning. I am not meaning anything ethically wrong or against the law like killing someone. lol But I am just simply wondering if just because people look at that single person as wrong, to you do you feel it is really wrong or do you choose to just not do it and do your own thing but don't consider them wrong. I am just wondering how others view people who are different. I honestly would not agree with this single person but i personally would not judge them for it unless it was effecting me. It is my choice not to be with that single person. and if I were that would be wrong on my part. I believe I decide what is wrong and right to me but that doesn't mean i am right.
@pahak627 (4558)
• Philippines
12 Sep 11
I agree with you we decide what is wrong and right for us which doesn't mean that we are right. I also don't agree for those single persons who are doing what I said before but I don't condemn them. That is the life that they choose and they're happy with that. I even have a few friends who are dong this.
@jennigoff33 (332)
• United States
13 Sep 11
I know several friends that are constantly doing things such as this, I even did it when i was younger well not more than one at a time, that's too weird but I acted single and didn't care what no one else thought of me. I consider people like this with a lot of balls. lol Heck if they want that lifestyle than I believe in their eyes it is right until they choose it is wrong. I have also seen people do change when they have a good enough reason too.
@jodylee (946)
• United States
16 Sep 11
Right and Wrong are relative to the person speaking it and to the person or people hearing it. Of course people really are right and really are wrong... in the same statement.
Perception of an issue is done in our brains and are based of our memories of things that turn out good and things that turn out bad. We do not all have the same histories or the same experiences so our ideas of right and wrong are based off both society and our own experiences... right? or wrong?
@jennigoff33 (332)
• United States
18 Jan 12
Exactly! I think we are all different and one situation could turn out bad for one person and in the same token turn out right for another. So of course we including me use these to try and make a different decision the next time, to see how it turns out.
@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
12 Sep 11
Well, that sure is right! I mean the thing is that we need to know first what every ones opinion on the matter is. Every one has different opinions on different things and even on the same things we could have thousands of ideas and however we define it, that is the truth for us then.
@jennigoff33 (332)
• United States
18 Jan 12
I agree! I think alot of people can be different an still right. I think we each define out own outlooks and beliefs, but I think talking about the differences is always the right thing to do.
@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
12 Sep 11
Well, that sure is right! I mean the thing is that we need to know first what every ones opinion on the matter is. Every one has different opinions on different things and even on the same things we could have thousands of ideas and however we define it, that is the truth for us then.
@jennigoff33 (332)
• United States
12 Sep 11
Opinions really are diversified. Me and my best friend really are complete opposites but yet we are real friends that will be there for each other no matter what. I believe there have been times that I may not do the things she does but I understand why she does them.
@jaimz19 (236)
• Philippines
13 Sep 11
You can never really force anyone to agree with you. To make a point that you're right and the other is wrong. So why not agree to disagree? Compromise might be the magic word in these situations so that we can all get along well.
@jennigoff33 (332)
• United States
13 Sep 11
I agree, I have not really met anyone that is like me, I believe as long as no one is breaking the law, or hurting anyone else that just because they live a different lifestyle does not make them wrong. I believe more people should be open to others and this could make the world a happier place. Constant negative energy can drag anyone down.
@megamatt (14291)
• United States
12 Sep 11
You know many times I do wonder if anyone has ever been right about anything in life. I think that strictly speaking, we are all wrong if you look at things from a certain perspective. Through the eyes of another person, something that is offensive can be something that just makes a person rather shrug their shoulders, not really caring about the situation. I think that when you really think about it, we're all in the wrong, its just some people are in a different degree of being in the wrong.
There are a lot of conflicted values in the world. There are a lot of people who really do not think about a lot of things in life and think that just because they have ascended to some golden pedestal of righteousness, it does not mean they are completely right. In their own values, they would be correct, but there is nothing written in stone that is absolutely correct. Everything is flawed, humanity is flawed, but we should rather enjoy life in spite of those flaws.
@jennigoff33 (332)
• United States
12 Sep 11
I believe that everyone should try and do right. However, I watch people that spend their life picking out flaws and often wonder, humm is this right or wrong? There are also things that I have seen some people may view as wrong and I can t help but think maybe they are not wrong. I do agree. I believe everything is flawed in general.