How can you know that he/she is your first love?
By eseulhan
@eseulhan (199)
Philippines
September 12, 2011 8:15am CST
I heard lots of people says, "he/she is my first love. I say, is there really such thing as first love? How can one distuingish it from the other kinds of love? Is it something to do with first bf or gf, or would this mean the love you had for someone with that "you can't live without" factor. People have different views on this, whats yours?
6 responses
@labli09 (70)
• Philippines
12 Sep 11
hmmm..first love?its the best and the worst thing that i've experienced.happy at first but it didn't last..first love usually follows first heartbreak and it sucks.but because of that,i learned to stand up and love again.a love that is different and much better than my first love.i actually thank my first love for breaking my heart,because of that, i became a better person and im so happy now..haha
@labli09 (70)
• Philippines
13 Sep 11
hehe..well in my case,he wasnt my first boyfriend..i just knew he was my first love coz i felt something different for him than my past lovers.and when we had our break up, i experienced so much pain for the first time..good for you,it didnt hurt you so much but i guess, it would be better if you experience so much pain so youll learn from it..am i right?hehe..i just base it from my own experience..so i guess your ex boyfriend is not your first love?
@GemmaR (8517)
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12 Sep 11
I think that when they say things such as that, they just mean that it is the first person who they have fallen in love with. Often, people will find out that they haven't been "in love" with the person in question and that they were getting confused with feelings of lust, but the feelings feel strong to the individual at the time and they are important for that reason. A lot of people think that they have met their first love in their early teens, but sadly those relationships rarely last as the two people will both change as they grow up and take different paths through their lives.
@shanemae (1025)
• Philippines
14 Sep 11
first love who could define this? i think a lot of people has been saying that he/ she was my first love but didn't know actually what first love means. anyway we have our own opinions about this and as for me first love does not necessarily mean your first gf/bf.i actually had a crush in my elementary years and i have been liking this guy for 4 years. my friends tell me to switch my interest to other guys since the guy is courting the other girl they feared that i might be in pain but i can't help it. i will always look for someone who is like him. years passed i still think of him.
@eseulhan (199)
• Philippines
14 Sep 11
omg! I had that same experience just recently. Hehe.,i cant get him out of my mind, but why is the time doesnt favored on me. I was really badly hurt knowing he has gf already. I wanted to forget him, but he keeps running on my mind. I know you know whos my ex was, its not him.
@shanemae (1025)
• Philippines
14 Sep 11
first love who could define this? i think a lot of people has been saying that he/ she was my first love but didn't know actually what first love means. anyway we have our own opinions about this and as for me first love does not necessarily mean your first gf/bf.i actually had a crush in my elementary years and i have been liking this guy for 4 years. my friends tell me to switch my interest to other guys since the guy is courting the other girl they feared that i might be in pain but i can't help it. i will always look for someone who is like him. years passed i still think of him. probably he is my 1st love. but i am happily loving now.
@jaifrille (6)
• Philippines
13 Sep 11
Hi...
For me "First Love" doesn't literally mean your first boyfriend or girlfriend. In my opinion Its the first person you love and your first boyfriend or girlfriend might not be him/her. I think that first love can't happen until the person is old enough to actually know what is happiness, seeing that person happy or know that when that person is sad makes you sad; there moods affect you. It is also someone who brings happiness, makes you laugh and being around him/her makes you feel safe and able to entrust your life in his/her hand...
